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My ex logs on to Facebook 4 times a day after she broke up with me?

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ConfusedHumanBeing Established Member

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This thread has a lot of bad advice.

 

Listen to yourself. You said she was being nosey and you wanted to keep NC. Stick with that and you'll do just fine.

Boomshine Established Member

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This thread has a lot of good advice which you're not ready to hear yet, because you're still too emotionally involved with the situation to sit back and look at things from a truly objective perspective.

 

Listen to yourself. You said she was being nosey and you wanted to keep NC. Stick with that and you'll do just fine, until you reach a point where you're actually ready to embrace the truth with an open mind and heart.

 

Fixed that for you.

ConfusedHumanBeing Established Member

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Fixed that for you.

 

Dont speak for me.

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Hi guys, here's a second update and boy is it an update!

After asking her if it meant she cared and after her ignoring, I decided to send a funny/flirty message the next day just to make sure and we've been talking since then :) she definitely missed me! I guess this shows me that sometimes it goes a long way to remind a girl why she even liked you in the first place. Thanks for all the help!

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Hi guys, here's a second update and boy is it an update!

After asking her if it meant she cared and after her ignoring, I decided to send a funny/flirty message the next day just to make sure and we've been talking since then :) she definitely missed me! I guess this shows me that sometimes it goes a long way to remind a girl why she even liked you in the first place. Thanks for all the help!

 

Kinda true! It's more that you should remind a girl why she should like you NOW vs why she USED to like you. :p

 

Exes will interact with you as long as interacting feels good. THAT'S the crucial thing behind everything. Anyone who ever wants to contact their ex simply needs to ask themselves one thing before they do so: Will what I want to say make them feel good?

 

You answer that question, and you know EXACTLY whether or not you should contact them.

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Hi guys, here's a second update and boy is it an update!

After asking her if it meant she cared and after her ignoring, I decided to send a funny/flirty message the next day just to make sure and we've been talking since then :) she definitely missed me! I guess this shows me that sometimes it goes a long way to remind a girl why she even liked you in the first place. Thanks for all the help!

 

Im sorry but this doesnt mean anything.Just because she answers text does NOT mean anything. At all.

 

I dont see how any of this is a "huge update" or anything of the sort.

Bella2 Established Member

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Why are you not changing your password?

 

 

Yes, I would still like to know this answer.....

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Hi guys, here's a second update and boy is it an update!

After asking her if it meant she cared and after her ignoring, I decided to send a funny/flirty message the next day just to make sure and we've been talking since then :) she definitely missed me! I guess this shows me that sometimes it goes a long way to remind a girl why she even liked you in the first place. Thanks for all the help!

 

Good luck with that, just be cautious as it may not lead where you are hoping it does. So see how it goes, but don't get your hopes too high.

 

If it works out for you then great, if not you really need to reread the NC guide and follow it properly as allowing her to log in to your facebook is contact, even if it isn't direct. Change your password, block her on facebook and really try not log in to hers

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Just because she is a woman doesn't make it any less creepy.

 

If you were the one logging into her Facebook account 4 times a day, we would all be screaming harassment...

 

And she goes as far as to read your private message...?

 

Change your password to something else. Move on. Don't try to log into her account even if she leaves the password as is.

 

While it is easy to remember why you loved her/she loved you, it is just as easy to remember why you two broke up.

 

I know you're in pain but man - you're just making it harder on yourself.

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Im sorry but this doesnt mean anything.Just because she answers text does NOT mean anything. At all.

 

I dont see how any of this is a "huge update" or anything of the sort.

 

Oh i didn't mean simply replying to my messages. I meant we've been flirting ever since.

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Good luck with that, just be cautious as it may not lead where you are hoping it does. So see how it goes, but don't get your hopes too high.

 

If it works out for you then great, if not you really need to reread the NC guide and follow it properly as allowing her to log in to your facebook is contact, even if it isn't direct. Change your password, block her on facebook and really try not log in to hers

 

Yes you're 100% right. If this doesn't seem to be going anywhere I will definitely do that. thanks!

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Hi guys, here's a second update and boy is it an update!

After asking her if it meant she cared and after her ignoring, I decided to send a funny/flirty message the next day just to make sure and we've been talking since then :) she definitely missed me! I guess this shows me that sometimes it goes a long way to remind a girl why she even liked you in the first place. Thanks for all the help!

 

So you found out she missed you? Why does that mean anything? You still aren't in a relationship with her. She is still choosing not to be with you.

d0nnivain Established Member

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It's the cyber equivalent of driving past your house.

 

It just means that she's not processing the break up but not necessarily that she wants you back.

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Justletgo Established Member

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Never expect women/girls to take the lead in anything romantic. That 'is the guy's job'. They also don't really know how to because most of them are not used to doing it.

 

So what you have been doing (flirting) with her is a good thing. You have taken the lead. And I guess if you play your cards right it could lead to getting back together.

BUT it doesn't mean that it's gonna happen OR that it's a wise thing to do.

But flirting back is ALWAYS a positive sign.

 

Just keep going, see where it goes and find out i guess.

 

People, not just exes, respond to 'fun' messages/things. It's the secret to flirt with girls too.

 

When asking for advice, it doesn't always have to mean the majority is giving you the right advice. And this thread just proved that.

The poster didn't give up when the majority told him to.

ConfusedHumanBeing Established Member

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Oh i didn't mean simply replying to my messages. I meant we've been flirting ever since.

 

My point still applies. It means nothing. All you are doing is making things so much worse. You dont see it, but that's exactly what you're doing.

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