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Date 1 was good (drink, walked after, kissed). A week later, date 2 was good too (dinner, kissed more, told stories and laughed for hours, and even held hands).

 

I ask her on date 3 via text (for next weekend), and she responds minutes later that she'd love to. I then ask which day, and she texts hours later something to the effect of, "either day works, but let's play it by ear" (as she said she might have to catch up on grad school readings over the weekend).

 

So, unsure if she wanted to meet at all (or if she wanted to "play by ear" the specific date/time to meet), I waited to hear back from her...until several days go by without hearing from her.

 

I then text her today, asking her what day works this weekend. She responded that can't meet as she's too busy (not with catching up with reading, but because of another school associated thing). She didn't follow-up with an alternate time to meet though (only a "have a good day!"). I told her no problem, and good luck.

 

My impression is that she lost interest...which is fine, but at the moment I find a little disappointing (as date 2 seemed promising) (she also said that she'd love to meet for date 3 minutes after I asked her, which makes me a little confused now).

 

Should I contact her next week to gauge her interest one last time, or should I let it be and not contact her again?

 

Thank you in advance for your thoughts.

Edited by jrtfrisco
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I'd cease contact since it doesn't sound like she's bothered to give you a very good reason for making herself scarce.

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If she was into you she'd make time to see you or at least make sure to keep that door open.

 

Don't contact her again. The ball is definitely in her court.

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Agree with the previous two posters. No reason to put yourself out there any further with this one. Ball is in her court.

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You tried twice. Let her approach you for the 3rd date. If she doesn't, her loss!

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Text her midweek "Are you up for something fun this weekend?" If she says Yes, then you work out the details "X place Sat night 7 PM". Keep it short and sweet. make it a fun date.

 

 

If she doesn't reply or says "No", then you've had your final answer and drop it.

 

 

Just give it one more shot. You have nothing to lose at this point.

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