carrie91 Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 I've just started seeing this guy, we're both 26. We've known each other a while and have liked each other for ages. We get on so so well, and he's one of the most laid back, understanding people I know. The other night, we had both had a bit to drink. We started to disagree about something, but somehow the disagreement got a bit heated. He was very annoyed with me. We made up shortly after, but I kind if get the feeling that things aren't the same any more. Then again, I could just be over thinking the whole thing. So, did the argument put him off me? We're not even a couple and we got angry with each other. I don't like that we argued, but I'm happy to move past it, but maybe he's not ok with it. I can't really ask him about it either, as it was days ago and I don't want to seem obsessive. Would you be put off a person if you had an argument early on? Any ideas? Thanks
d0nnivain Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 An argument early on would put me off but a healthy, spirited disagreement would probably make me more interested. There aren't too many people who can or will debate me. How people handle conflict is very telling. You may be overthinking things. Relax & see what happens. 1
carhill Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 We made up shortly after, but I kind if get the feeling that things aren't the same any more. Why? Try this: Ask the question while you're looking in the mirror in the bathroom. Generally, the answers are in the mirror. You both apparently accepted the disagreement, resolved it, made up and time marches on. How do you feel about that?
Fondue Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 What was the argument about? Who brought up the issue/conflict/scenario/event/thing/etc.? How did it end? Only reason why I ask is because some people just love drama and cause it purposefully. I hope this isn't one of those cases, because those people are ridiculous. I also think they're un-date-able. I would like to know if this is the case with either of you.
NoLeafClover Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 I've just started seeing this guy, we're both 26. We've known each other a while and have liked each other for ages. We get on so so well, and he's one of the most laid back, understanding people I know. The other night, we had both had a bit to drink. We started to disagree about something, but somehow the disagreement got a bit heated. He was very annoyed with me. We made up shortly after, but I kind if get the feeling that things aren't the same any more. Then again, I could just be over thinking the whole thing. So, did the argument put him off me? We're not even a couple and we got angry with each other. I don't like that we argued, but I'm happy to move past it, but maybe he's not ok with it. I can't really ask him about it either, as it was days ago and I don't want to seem obsessive. Would you be put off a person if you had an argument early on? Any ideas? Thanks This is like saying we had sex and had an orgasm..but I feel like sex won't be the same idk why.... you have to give us some info... what was the argument bout? What were the reactions.did he get up and leave or did be get annoyed and fall asleep during the argument?
Assasda Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 It depends on the argument, and it depends on how you argued, or what was said. The devil is always in the details An argument could definitely put me off
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