Decipher this code for me

[whichwayisup]

Its not a "negative"....its my reality.

 

If theres no bridge to cross a river....and I state, we need to go the long way around, its going to take a whole day.....is that being negative, or is it simply being realistic?

 

People ALWAYS label my realistic comments as negative....because the whole damn world is spoiled with all of you sugarcoating every damn thing you say to each other.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yes I have a car, but thats irrellevent since its pointless to drive a distance to go to a meetup group and meet women that live no where near me.

 

 

 

 

 

I have a car that I drag race at the local track. The only women that are ever there are a few wives of other drivers.

 

 

 

 

My family members arent bright enough for that and I sure as hell wouldnt meet someone that they set me up with any ways.

 

I'm out. You 'poo-pooed' any advice I've given you, as well as others who are just trying to help. THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX and try to be creative.

 

Good luck and I sincerely mean that.

[AtomZ]

I'm out. You 'poo-pooed' any advice I've given you, as well as others who are just trying to help. THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX and try to be creative.

 

Good luck and I sincerely mean that.

 

You didn't help one bit. And you're giving up as soon as you run out of the three most popular generic forms of advice to give. Just because my situation doesn't fit me into your box of advice you are packing everything up and hitting the road.

[me85]

Atom, oh Atom…people are packing up because you are coming across as rude and shunning people's advice. Do you just want people to agree with you? Ya, ya..people suck. Women are stupid…OLD is ridiculous…you're right.

 

There. Happy?

[AtomZ]

The question still remains…have you ever been in a serious relationship?

 

 

Yes I've had two serious relationships. I'm 43 with no kids. My first serious relationship was at 28, dated a woman for three years, we almost got engaged but she decided to kill herself due to depression after her sister overdosed.

 

Met another woman and get married in my mid 30s, that lasted five years. Once she graduated got her job she didn't need me anymore. She basically just used me to support her and her kids till she started her nursing job.

[me85]

Hey!! You finally answered my question! Now we're getting somewhere!

 

I'm very sorry for your loses. That's heartbreaking. But I like the fact that you are now opening up. You just needed to be rattled a bit.

 

So what's the underline truth here? I think I know but it's too soon to really tell.

 

I don't think it has anything to do with bad luck with OLD at all. Or even really with women. I think that's a fraction of the problem.

 

Illuminate me.

[AtomZ]

Hey!! You finally answered my question! Now we're getting somewhere!

 

I'm very sorry for your loses. That's heartbreaking. But I like the fact that you are now opening up. You just needed to be rattled a bit.

 

So what's the underline truth here? I think I know but it's too soon to really tell.

 

I don't think it has anything to do with bad luck with OLD at all. Or even really with women. I think that's a fraction of the problem.

 

Illuminate me.

 

You are very annoying with your read between the lines bs.

 

Are you capable of speaking black and white english and not making a game of this?

[whichwayisup]

You didn't help one bit. And you're giving up as soon as you run out of the three most popular generic forms of advice to give. Just because my situation doesn't fit me into your box of advice you are packing everything up and hitting the road.

 

I could encourage you to do x, y and z and you'll find reason with everything I say to find a negative and say why it won't work. Others have made suggests too and you've shot them down as well. And you've already said I never did help you from the get go, so really why put effort in if you're just going to get irritated and shoot down anything else I say?

 

You tell me then what is it that you're actually looking for? What type of suggestions can we all make to help you find someone to date and have it turn into a relationship?

[me85]

Alright. I'm done. You're inexcusably rude for absolutely no reason. Now I see why you're having such a hard time.

 

I'm not playing any games at all.

[whichwayisup]

Yes I've had two serious relationships. I'm 43 with no kids. My first serious relationship was at 28, dated a woman for three years, we almost got engaged but she decided to kill herself due to depression after her sister overdosed.

 

Met another woman and get married in my mid 30s, that lasted five years. Once she graduated got her job she didn't need me anymore. She basically just used me to support her and her kids till she started her nursing job.

 

Sorry for your loss, nobody should lose anybody that way.

 

Some relationships aren't meant to be, but sorry that woman with kids took advantage of you. Very hurtful.

 

Don't give up.

 

Have you tried a singles night at a bar or restaurant?

 

Also how willing are you to really put yourself 'out there'?

 

Me85 was being sincere and kind. No need to be so rude to posters who are actually trying to help you.

[WhatIsLove2014]

Maybe you shouldn't be looking for a relationship right now. You seem to have a lot of hang ups and maybe you should deal with that first before assuming it's the women you are meeting.

[sillyanswer]

When I try to get a date with women and they tell me.....

 

"You're a good looking guy… You'll find someone one day"

 

What exactly does that mean? If they think I'm good looking why would they pass me off to someone else?

 

It means she doesn't fancy you.