kittenhead Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 My BF loves it when a woman ejaculates. I want to learn how to do it. Are there any books I can read or can someone who has experienced it explain to me how to do it?
Xerxes1986 Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 Originally posted by kittenhead My BF loves it when a woman ejaculates. I want to learn how to do it. Are there any books I can read or can someone who has experienced it explain to me how to do it? 1 word...yuck! but if you wanna know how to do it..there are plenty of tutorials and articles about it on the net...try a google search the only thing i know is that you have to orgasm by means of your g-spot
einahpets Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 i don't think it is "yuck" at all. its awesome. buy Seymour Butt's: Guide to Female Ejaculation. it is a dvd if you don't mind the porn aspect, but it has tons of great info on it. there are also many books on it.
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 Yes, they can. Well - some women can, anyway. I can and I LOVE IT. Its the most intense sexual sensation I've ever encountered. Here are some tips (I'll keep it as general as possible, otherwise its going to read like porn): 1. Do as much searching as you can on the gspot and gspot orgasms. Avoid any non instructional porn and look for more instructional sites. The one mentioned above is pretty good. Learn about the spot, basically where it is and how its best stimulated. 2. If you have toys, great - it works best for me to have them. 3. Now, to give it a shot: Get some alone time with no interruptions or chance of interruption. Get plenty of lube, towels and some toys if you have them. 4. Go to the bathroom, and empty yourself out (not to be gross, but ejaculation requires some intense pushing and you really want to be 'empty'. Pee, and do whatever else. 5. Do whatever it takes to get yourself in the mood. This is key - the more you are in the mood, the more likely it will happen. I like watching some really good girl on girl action. Heh. Do whatever is comfortable for you though. 6. Once you are in the mood, go to where you want to go to be alone, warm and no chance of interruptions. Once you are alone, get your stuff ready - you will want to start with some 'self foreplay' - lube up your fingers, and then start stimulating yourself wherever you want to start. Chest, between your legs - wherever you like. I suggest starting by laying on your back or halfway sitting up. Some women when they learn to do it change up the position, but on the back is my favorite. 7. Get yourself really, really turned on and then you are now going to want to find the gspot - it should be pretty erect inside you by this point. 8. Reach in with one or two fingers, and pretend like you are aiming your fingertips for your belly button on the 'celing' of your insides. You will feel a rough spongy spot - press down on it until you feel a vague 'have to pee' sensation. 9. Now, stroke it a few times like you are doing a 'come here' motion with your fingers and stop - then go back to your 'outer touching (your clit) and do some stimulation there until it drives you crazy but don't come! Now reach inside again and find that spot and stroke it hard with your fingers - keep going back and forth until you are very, very wet. 10. Now you should be sufficiently turned on - time for the toys. If you are using a straight toy with no 'bend' at the tip (a gspot stimulator) you will want to lube it up really, really well and then hold it inside you so that the tip is aiming for your belly button from the inside - stroke it around inside until you find that spot. 11. Now comes the hard part. If you have a vibrator this will be much easier - either hold it to your clit or rub it yourself and begin stroking your toy at a firm but rapid pace while stimulating your clit. Remember to keep it at an angle pointing up - (or if using your fingers make the strokes firm) 12. While you are stimulating your clit and stroking, you will want to increase the speed - you'll feel yourself 'loosen' and get extremely wet - this is the beginning of it. Stroke faster. You want to stroke at the same speed and firmness that you do when shaking up a bottle of something. Keep the angle. 13. Now, you'll begin to feel an urge to pee - it will be intense. Very intense - this is your cue to really start stroking it hard and keeping the stimulation going (you may want to pull up your knees toward your chest or have your legs wide open and bring them up into the air. Don't stop! You will want to stop, but make yourself push it harder. 14. Once you push it past that point, you will feel yourself almost literally "slam shut" inside with an orgasmic muscle spasm and whatever toy is inside you will be forced out - as this is happening, bare down inside like you are trying to help that 'push' and let go. If you clench like you are trying to stop peeing, you will stop the ejaculation. It will either dribble out, or spurt out, or spray (have lots of towels!) You will be shaky afterward. Its very, very intense. Now, I'll say this - it took me many times before I could do it. Practice makes perfect. The sensation is unmistakable though. Once you know how to do it yourself, you can show your partner how to do it and you can enjoy it together. 1
Xerxes1986 Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia Yes, they can. Well - some women can, anyway. I can and I LOVE IT. Its the most intense sexual sensation I've ever encountered. Here are some tips (I'll keep it as general as possible, otherwise its going to read like porn): 1. Do as much searching as you can on the gspot and gspot orgasms. Avoid any non instructional porn and look for more instructional sites. The one mentioned above is pretty good. Learn about the spot, basically where it is and how its best stimulated. 2. If you have toys, great - it works best for me to have them. 3. Now, to give it a shot: Get some alone time with no interruptions or chance of interruption. Get plenty of lube, towels and some toys if you have them. 4. Go to the bathroom, and empty yourself out (not to be gross, but ejaculation requires some intense pushing and you really want to be 'empty'. Pee, and do whatever else. 5. Do whatever it takes to get yourself in the mood. This is key - the more you are in the mood, the more likely it will happen. I like watching some really good girl on girl action. Heh. Do whatever is comfortable for you though. 6. Once you are in the mood, go to where you want to go to be alone, warm and no chance of interruptions. Once you are alone, get your stuff ready - you will want to start with some 'self foreplay' - lube up your fingers, and then start stimulating yourself wherever you want to start. Chest, between your legs - wherever you like. I suggest starting by laying on your back or halfway sitting up. Some women when they learn to do it change up the position, but on the back is my favorite. 7. Get yourself really, really turned on and then you are now going to want to find the gspot - it should be pretty erect inside you by this point. 8. Reach in with one or two fingers, and pretend like you are aiming your fingertips for your belly button on the 'celing' of your insides. You will feel a rough spongy spot - press down on it until you feel a vague 'have to pee' sensation. 9. Now, stroke it a few times like you are doing a 'come here' motion with your fingers and stop - then go back to your 'outer touching (your clit) and do some stimulation there until it drives you crazy but don't come! Now reach inside again and find that spot and stroke it hard with your fingers - keep going back and forth until you are very, very wet. 10. Now you should be sufficiently turned on - time for the toys. If you are using a straight toy with no 'bend' at the tip (a gspot stimulator) you will want to lube it up really, really well and then hold it inside you so that the tip is aiming for your belly button from the inside - stroke it around inside until you find that spot. 11. Now comes the hard part. If you have a vibrator this will be much easier - either hold it to your clit or rub it yourself and begin stroking your toy at a firm but rapid pace while stimulating your clit. Remember to keep it at an angle pointing up - (or if using your fingers make the strokes firm) 12. While you are stimulating your clit and stroking, you will want to increase the speed - you'll feel yourself 'loosen' and get extremely wet - this is the beginning of it. Stroke faster. You want to stroke at the same speed and firmness that you do when shaking up a bottle of something. Keep the angle. 13. Now, you'll begin to feel an urge to pee - it will be intense. Very intense - this is your cue to really start stroking it hard and keeping the stimulation going (you may want to pull up your knees toward your chest or have your legs wide open and bring them up into the air. Don't stop! You will want to stop, but make yourself push it harder. 14. Once you push it past that point, you will feel yourself almost literally "slam shut" inside with an orgasmic muscle spasm and whatever toy is inside you will be forced out - as this is happening, bare down inside like you are trying to help that 'push' and let go. If you clench like you are trying to stop peeing, you will stop the ejaculation. It will either dribble out, or spurt out, or spray (have lots of towels!) You will be shaky afterward. Its very, very intense. Now, I'll say this - it took me many times before I could do it. Practice makes perfect. The sensation is unmistakable though. Once you know how to do it yourself, you can show your partner how to do it and you can enjoy it together. DOWN BOY! DOWN! God damnit Lucrezia...now i have to go do the deed.
whichwayisup Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 Well...I know what I AM going to DO as soon as my husband goes back to work on Monday morning! 1
Xerxes1986 Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup Well...I know what I AM going to DO as soon as my husband goes back to work on Monday morning! omg rofl
Author kittenhead Posted March 6, 2005 Author Posted March 6, 2005 ok--this is awesome information. i kind wish i could have an instructor with me to coach me along--but i think i'll just have to practice on my own. Question, can you actually pee during this moment? we were trying to make me ejaculate this weekend --and the only thing that came out was a soft-little dribble--out of my urethra--the orgasm was -- omg--really good--definately punched up a level--but no earthquakes. i want to know if it was urine maybe. 1
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 can you actually pee during this moment? If you have pee in your bladder, there's a good chance it can come out with the ejaculate when you push and let go - I think that's the hardest part psychologically, the letting go and being afraid of what will come out. I've not peed during it before - its feels different than peeing. When it happens with me, its more of a sensation of something being forced out in a spurt without my control rather than the controlled nature of peeing. Some experiences will be more intense than others. The times I have alone are always more intense.
knight56 Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 that is so cool i never seen a woman do that. Is it warm too like us guys?
Xerxes1986 Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup You think I'm joking????? no...im just wondering how it went for ya and if you took any pics Originally posted by knight56 that is so cool i never seen a woman do that. Is it warm too like us guys? umm...use your head dude. its a liquid, that is stored inside the human body. basic anatomy tells us tha tht e human body is 98.6 degrees. So, this liquid will probably be that tempurature when it comes out.
whichwayisup Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 no...im just wondering how it went for ya and if you took any pics It ain't Monday morning yet...Probably have to be Wednesday as my H is actually taking tomorrow off. Tuesday I am out for part of the day..Wednesday I will be home alone. Just something I would like to try alone...That way when it works I can put on a show for my H. Sorry, no pix...Guess you'll just have fantasize or watch some porn!
Xerxes1986 Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup It ain't Monday morning yet...Probably have to be Wednesday as my H is actually taking tomorrow off. Tuesday I am out for part of the day..Wednesday I will be home alone. Just something I would like to try alone...That way when it works I can put on a show for my H. Sorry, no pix...Guess you'll just have fantasize or watch some porn! or i'll just have to watch thru ur window
RowanRavyn Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 It is a very different sensation than peeing. Its much more forceful. The first time I did it, I thought I had peed, but it was not urine for sure. A couple of times I have had it happen and its sort of a dribble, then sometimes its like a damn waterfall. A freaking mazing when it happens too. I can't walk for a while afterwards.
GirlDown Posted March 7, 2005 Posted March 7, 2005 lucrezia, i think you should start charging for that information!
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