grade 12 love story, need

[LXIII]

I have nobody to share my problem so i posted this

 

So i am asian 17 years old, just came to canada last year. Ive been in this school for 1 semester, (im starting my next semester now) i can speak english fluently but i dont speak as good as first born canadian. I speak english with accent (so some people think i was born here, but i cant speak fast) and sometimes i pronounced words badly <- minus point of confidence level

 

I am a shy guy, i am passive, quiet (changes 180 degree when my gang is with me xD)

 

Lets say im a new guy in school, i came late to class because i changed my class and the teacher makes me to sit in the very last row. After that i looked around and found this girl. She sits in the first row. And then suddenly i feel like something burning in my heart, it beats hardly. And i started to like her.

 

Her name is leanna, she is vietnamese, she is sweet looking and good girl looking, she is simple girl. She is single and she likes boyband so much. She has her own gang and i dont know any of her friends. She doesnt follow any guy except boybands and celebrity and dowsnt have any guy followers in twitter. I dont know if she enjoys being single or what

 

I really want to be her friend but i dont know what to do. I want to talk to her but i dont know how. Would it be random if i say hi or how are u since she doesnt know me even my name. I really need help, i barely talk to girls.

 

I really need help, i dont know how to make first step

[Jules Dash]

You do know how. You have done it many times but you were not attracted to the person.

 

Contrary to a popular belief, there is no magic to this. You walk right up to her and introduce yourself. Just do that first. Keep it simple.

[LXIII]

But seriously i never say hi to people, except they say hi to me first. The thing is she never make an eye contact with me.

 

And im awkward too i dont have ability to talk

[Jules Dash]

Well, you need to start there. You need to start saying hi to random people first.

 

I'm going to be realistic with you, you are not going to get any girls unless you learn to talk first. Start with saying hi to random people in the streets or grocery line. Do it 10 times per day at least starting tomorrow for the rest of your life. Seriously. After you are comfortable with this (maybe a week or so) then start making the conversation longer. Say hi then compliment the person or comment on the weather or any thing in your environment. Once you are comfortable with this, approach the girl but still do your other social exercises forever. Last but not least, get a job that requires you to interact with people frequently and talk such as the front desk person at a hotel.

 

If you do all of this, you will be a changed man in about 1 year and you just may become the guy no one wants to sit next to on the plane because he won't stop talking. This is how I turned myself around when I was 19 and before long, I was literally holding conversations with big name celebrities and I have been able to talk to and approach anyone since. It works! Good luck!