Naginal Posted December 19, 2005 Posted December 19, 2005 I was in a twenty two month relationship, well we broke up start of this year for three months and a lot went on during that time n both of our lives but when she asked me bk telling me her biggest mistake was in telling me she no longer loved me well i didnt question i took her back she proposed to me two months later and i didnt question that either but then in august 2005 she left me, broke my heart all over again told me she didnt love me nymore she didnt want me, since then well were still mates and talk often and ive seen her face to face twice for some time, but i get so jealous when she talks to anyone else, and i blame myself for our brakeup, and because i cant make her fall back n love with me, i think theres something wrong with me because she dont want me anymore, its been four months and i still cry madly over her and im still so madly in love with her i just dont know what to do
Blondie445 Posted December 21, 2005 Posted December 21, 2005 I dont think you will ever get over your true love Time heals all wounds and things so get better believe me. My husabnd died when I was 30 yrs and had 3 small children, you do get past things and it is with time that things do get better. It has been ten years now and I still think about hime everyday. Sometimes I still cry and get upset, That is ok it is all jsut a process of coping. Just know you will have that special place in your heart that never dies and you can love again. It is just different. Your heart grows to love again and heals itself. I never thought I would find love again but I did. Like I said it is just a different kind of love. have hope you will go on. Go talk with someone if things get too hard for you, that helps a bunch. Got to go, I will keep you in my thoughts.
lynnf Posted January 2, 2006 Posted January 2, 2006 Like all of you...I too am at a total loss for getting over who I thought was "the one". I know now he is not, and I keep telling myself this. Actaully I have been telling myself FOR YEARS! The thing is, he persued me many years ago. He was oh so charming, extremely inteligent and successful...a girls dream, right?? Well, as most women would, I fell for it. "Hook,line and sinker". Who wouldn't? Ya know....he never even took me out on a date, or did anything relatively thoughtful letting me know he cared for me. So you ask, "why did I bother, why did I get so "hooked" on this guy that clearly did not care about me in the least? Well, as much as I hate to say this, and ashamed to say it.... I fell victim of the good sex syndrome. I am sure we have all been there at one time or another. The thing is, he had a way of making feel like I was the ONLY woman he ever wanted. Soon to find out...he had many woman feeling the exact same way. As sad as it is, I kept seeing him.This has gone on now for almost 5 yrs!! I know...enough is enough. Why do this to myself? Pathetically, hoping he will feel the same about me, and want no else. I chase after him, I still agree to see him knowing I shouldn't. When I break it off...I soon go back. And I know he could care less when I come back. It's like I come back for more emotional punishment. I know it is more than pathetic, believe me I do. And I get so mad at him, but more mad at mself!! How do I get the strength to finally let it go, let him go, and get over him? Please, how do I keep myself away from someone that hurts me so much?? Helplessy Needing Stength and Self Power!
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