lightningmirrorrock Posted September 17, 2014 Posted September 17, 2014 (edited) just met a girl today who seems pretty cool. we exchanged a few convos on campus during a meeting. I asked for her # she gladly gave it. I left with my friends afterI the meeting we ran into each other again a little later I joked around saying you just can't keep away can you. She smiles and says apparently not. So should I go for it? I have no idea if she is single. Edited September 17, 2014 by lightningmirrorrock
HappyLove Posted September 17, 2014 Posted September 17, 2014 Of course! You've already done the hard part. Just say something like, "If your single I'd really like to take you to xx". There's only one way to find out. Go for it! 1
mightycpa Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 are you f'in kidding me? campus? COLLEGE campus?
SomeDude16 Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Yes you should. Your still fresh in her mind and left a good impression resulting in getting her #. Do it!
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 If I see her tomorrow I'll ask her out. if not I'll just call her up and ask her out. 1
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 If I see her tomorrow I'll ask her out. if anything I'll just call her up and ask her out.
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 I'll try to reach her tomorrow.
mightycpa Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 jeez-- pm me her number and your first name, and I'll ask her out! Ok, just saw your posts. never mind
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 I never really liked the asking a girl is she single approach. she either tell me if she's taken or not when I ask her out. 1
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 its cool. normally all girls I meet that I'm interested in end up flaking.
mightycpa Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 its cool. normally all girls I meet that I'm interested in end up flaking. Then you're not asking enough girls out. If ALL are flaking, you're either weird in the extreme, or just not a large enough sample size. Ask her out. If she says no, ask her if she's got any friends.
HappyLove Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 its cool. normally all girls I meet that I'm interested in end up flaking. Go in with a positive attitude! The only reason I suggest to say "if your single" is so it's not so awkward if she is taken. Regardless of how you do it, just go for it. Good luck!
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 Then you're not asking enough girls out. If ALL are flaking, you're either weird in the extreme, or just not a large enough sample size. Ask her out. If she says no, ask her if she's got any friends. I'm weird in a fun way is what most friends say because usually I'm unpredictable. I don't normally ask girls out because I usually pussy out or find out they are already in a relationship and the ones I do ask out say yes then blow me off.
mightycpa Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 Who gives a **** if they are in a relationship? If that relationship is strong, they will shut you down. If not..... Don't live your life in fear. What are you afraid of? NO? NO, I WON'T GO OUT WITH YOU, YOU CLIT-FOR-A-DICK-PUSSY-MAN. Nobody will say that to you. I once asked a girl out for 30 days, once a day. On the 5th day, I gave her a calendar with the 30th day marked. I knew she wouldn't go out with me, but she became a pretty good friend, and I dated her sister, and many of her friends. Don't be afraid. If you're clever and a little brave, a lot of good women are in store for you. Or, you can be like my friends Mike and Dave, and wonder why girls aren't interested in them. Boo-hoo.
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 Go in with a positive attitude! The only reason I suggest to say "if your single" is so it's not so awkward if she is taken. Regardless of how you do it, just go for it. Good luck! I understand about the awkwardness but still its kind of ehh for me to ask idk thats just me. yea Ik Thanks!!! I would ask my friend if shes single but I don't want to because knowing them they will make a fuss about it and just bother me.
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 Who gives a **** if they are in a relationship? If that relationship is strong, they will shut you down. If not..... Don't live your life in fear. What are you afraid of? Nobody will say that to you. I once asked a girl out for 30 days, once a day. On the 5th day, I gave her a calendar with the 30th day marked. I knew she wouldn't go out with me, but she became a pretty good friend, and I dated her sister, and many of her friends. Don't be afraid. If you're clever and a little brave, a lot of good women are in store for you. Or, you can be like my friends Mike and Dave, and wonder why girls aren't interested in them. Boo-hoo. hey man I get it as long as they don't have a ring on their finger who gives a fk. but damn sounds like you had a blast.
mightycpa Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 You got it friend. Like my friend Frankie Roosevelt said, The only thing we have to fear is.... fear itself. Girls are a blast. They love boys with a set of cojones. You'll notice that a bunch of your friends are afraid. If you act like you're not (even if you are), that will set you apart. I learned that from my fraternity training. It works. Don't be an *******, but don't be afraid either. You'll love the results.
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 You got it friend. Like my friend Frankie Roosevelt said, Girls are a blast. They love boys with a set of cojones. You'll notice that a bunch of your friends are afraid. If you act like you're not (even if you are), that will set you apart. I learned that from my fraternity training. It works. Don't be an *******, but don't be afraid either. You'll love the results. I just have to build up my confidence more its much better than what it was in highschool I couldn't even ask any girl out. At least I'm trying. I'm not asking enough girls out though I say I've only asked about 4 or 5 so far. Maybe its just the type of girls I'm meeting. I'm going to try to up my game and ask out one girl a week until I find one thats not a flake maybe then it will start becoming more natural to me. 2
Assasda Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 I dont ask "are you single" either. Because personally, I dont care. - Im getting to know someone, and if we get to a romantic point, she'll divulge. that information to me Only advice I have is, when you ask her to go out, Go out and do something that YOU like to do
HappyLove Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 I'm weird in a fun way is what most friends say because usually I'm unpredictable. I don't normally ask girls out because I usually pussy out or find out they are already in a relationship and the ones I do ask out say yes then blow me off. One problem at a time. You're selling yourself short here. Do you know how many GROWN MATURE men WISH they had the guts to ask for a woman's number?! You saw someone you liked you asked for her number that's HUGE. Leave the negativity at home. People sense a negative self defeated vibe and it's NOT attractive. Look, if this girl thought you were some loser she wouldn't have given you her number.
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 One problem at a time. You're selling yourself short here. Do you know how many GROWN MATURE men WISH they had the guts to ask for a woman's number?! You saw someone you liked you asked for her number that's HUGE. Leave the negativity at home. People sense a negative self defeated vibe and it's NOT attractive. Look, if this girl thought you were some loser she wouldn't have given you her number. yes I know stories about guys who regret never getting the number. You might be right she wouldn't have but remember there are girls who give it to you only because you asked they don't know how to say no so they just hand you the number. Then you send them a text and they never respond to you although you thought that there was mutual attraction there.
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 I dont ask "are you single" either. Because personally, I dont care. - Im getting to know someone, and if we get to a romantic point, she'll divulge. that information to me Only advice I have is, when you ask her to go out, Go out and do something that YOU like to do that sucks man. sh*t like that happens. I already have something in mind that I want to do with any girl I ask out for a first date.
HappyLove Posted September 18, 2014 Posted September 18, 2014 yes I know stories about guys who regret never getting the number. You might be right she wouldn't have but remember there are girls who give it to you only because you asked they don't know how to say no so they just hand you the number. Then you send them a text and they never respond to you although you thought that there was mutual attraction there. Well you can only take one step at a time and try to not be negative about it. Hopefully you'll have a date to plan soon.
Author lightningmirrorrock Posted September 18, 2014 Author Posted September 18, 2014 Well you can only take one step at a time and try to not be negative about it. Hopefully you'll have a date to plan soon. I try not to but thats what happens you never had a gf and is almost 22. I jst start to worry because this is new territory for me. I got into the dating scene pretty late. and my date plan involves going ice skating. hopefully I see her tomorrow.
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