ComingInHot Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 its all good. I was just having a bad day that day. I saw a lot in her that I wanted in a partner, unfortunately she did not. I was conversational and relaxed on the date, so no red flags. I'm not nuts, just sometimes feel down that women I like don't feel the same way. I never express desperation of neediness. I just sometimes feel that on the inside ...a bad day is what LS is for my friend. If we can't vent here then we're SOL! Probably explains why I've been on LS what feels like 24/7. Tough times calls for the tough and not so tough LSers** Quid, you've got lots going for you. Keep your head up & shoulders back.
CaliGuy Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I've dated women much younger than me. It's not a numerical issue, it's a mental issue.
Author quidproquo89 Posted October 8, 2014 Author Posted October 8, 2014 ...a bad day is what LS is for my friend. If we can't vent here then we're SOL! Probably explains why I've been on LS what feels like 24/7. Tough times calls for the tough and not so tough LSers** Quid, you've got lots going for you. Keep your head up & shoulders back. I'm seriously struggling tonight. Let me put this in perspective. I was seriously crushed in February by someone I really liked. I pulled myself out of it with strength of character and weightlifting lol. A gorgeous girl asked me out (I had a crush on her), and she used me as a rebound, then ignored my existence and went back to her ex. Then I message this lovely woman who likes all the things I like, and has the same ideas and thoughts/personality traits as me. We meet up and from the offset she's polite but didn't bother to try to get to know me. Like she made her mind up the moment we met or before. I was fine! Not a big deal, right? I've got a date coming up on Thursday, but I've had a sudden bit of phobia I've never encountered in my life before. As if I don't want to go because I'm tired and afraid of falling on my face again. So much rejection from women I really like. Has nothing to do with red flags or desperation. I never show that, always natural and conversational. I don't even have as much in common with this girl as the others I've mentioned, she lives a bit of a trek away and I'm not sure how attracted I am. However I don't know how much of that is the mood I'm in. I'm not a nut job I swear, I just overthink things and get a little down. I still don't know why this last woman agreed to go on a date, then didn't even try or give me a chance when we met, pfft. Fed up. No harsh comments please
Author quidproquo89 Posted October 8, 2014 Author Posted October 8, 2014 I've dated women much younger than me. It's not a numerical issue, it's a mental issue. I'm very mature and (except for loveshack venting lol) in control of my thoughts and emotions. 1
Author quidproquo89 Posted October 8, 2014 Author Posted October 8, 2014 ...a bad day is what LS is for my friend. If we can't vent here then we're SOL! Probably explains why I've been on LS what feels like 24/7. Tough times calls for the tough and not so tough LSers** Quid, you've got lots going for you. Keep your head up & shoulders back. anything in particular you need to talk about?
d0nnivain Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Go on the date on Thursday. Even if it's not the best date of your life, it's still better than being at home, alone & wallowing. 2
Author quidproquo89 Posted October 8, 2014 Author Posted October 8, 2014 Why can't YOU see that you aren't a great match? Apparently she can. because we were very like minded
CaliGuy Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I'm very mature and (except for loveshack venting lol) in control of my thoughts and emotions. Well I'm totally interested in women from the UK too. Those accents hit my funny bone in a VERY good way 1
Tayken Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Well I'm totally interested in women from the UK too. Those accents hit my funny bone in a VERY good way It's not all it's cracked up to be...which of the accents in particular are we talking about here? Be careful what you wish for
Gloria25 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 While 31 and 25 isn't bad if the guy is 31 (cuz a 31 yr old woman would be desperate to settle down cuz she's getting older and clock is ticking), fact is she's still 25 and still in "flakey" mode... I wouldn't take a 25 yr old chick seriously - she's still figuring out who she is and what she wants in life and yea, probably lots of guys are wanting to jump on her young body....
Author quidproquo89 Posted October 8, 2014 Author Posted October 8, 2014 when it comes to dating this new girl, all I can think is this last woman - and how she was perfect for me in every way . I appreciate that its stupid, but that's how I feel.
melticio Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 Love is for everyone and so is dating. I think it's not right to say that you can't go on dating girls because you're too old or too young because at the end of the day, it all comes down to the chemistry and age would not definitely matter. I would testify to that. I am happily married to a woman who's 7 years younger than me and here's the catch, I just found her online. Yes, just a dating site -->Get Your Love Now | This site is full of really beautiful girls - true to be exact and to be honest, I wanna have to pay this site some high salutations and proper credits because this has TOTALLY WORKED FOR ME technically, emotionally and personally so if I were you guys, I'd follow what I personally want not just what I am needed to do though what others might say. If you needed more relationship and dating advice, visit E Love 4 U.net |. Wishing you good luck !
mysteryscape Posted December 2, 2014 Posted December 2, 2014 I guess we can close the book on this one Weren't you here a couple of weeks ago celebrating that you'd started with someone, it had something to do with not putting up with multidating or something? Or was it something else, I remember your picture. Is the one you just talked about here new? Anyhow, I think the other posters are right, forget about this one and move on to the next. Or return to your mates and enjoy life again!
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