Same situation over and over

[amkxoxo]

I had posted on here months ago about this guy I had met and dated for a while. Unfortunately he had to move across the country and we briefly kept in touch. He is very busy. He tells me we can hangout when he comes to town. I have been trying to keep the link between us and will message him once a month just to say hi! He says the normal. "Hey how are you. I have been super busy". etc....

 

 

The last time I posted he had told me he was coming to town and that we could see each other but weeks later I got nothing and he never came. His plans changed. I follow him on social media so I would have seen if he was here. I messaged him a few weeks ago again just to say hi. Without me saying anything he brought up that he would be in town in a few weeks and it would be nice to see me, If I was up to it. I replied I would love to and that he should tell me ahead of time exactly when so I won't have to work last minute. Well its been about 2 weeks now and I haven't heard a thing from him. I don't know what is going on with this guy. I am about ready to give up. I don't take a lot from men anymore after my ex pulled me back and forth for almost a year. I have very little tolerance. I liked this guy and he seemed so genuine. His life isn't very practical for dating let alone a relationship and I don't think I would want to date someone far away anyway. So maybe us seeing each other isn't a good idea anyway. His lack of communication and planning is almost making me miss my ex, just because he seems more available than even this guy. That is sad. My ex who lives 3 hours away and we have barely spoken for 6 months is more reachable than this new guy who treated me like a woman should be treated but is so unavailable.

[mightycpa]

You'd find it a lot easier if you concentrated your efforts on local guys. Think about it.

[Assasda]

You should seek out your ex then, and leave this guy alone