Why would this guy pretend not to know me after I did this?

[xobeautyxoo]

I met this guy online about a month ago and we had lunch together a few weeks ago. When we met before, it seemed like he was using me for sex. We are both in college. This morning he called me saying, "hey wanna do something later" then I said no and then he hung up and then I saw him at school a few minutes after the phone call and I saw him hanging out talking to a bunch of girls and flirting with them and then I saw him and went up to him and said hi to him and then out of no where he said, "Who are you" and I responded with "I know you." "you called me before". Then he said "no you didn't" and then he walked away. Why would this guy that was interested in me for a long time pretend he doesn't know me after I saw him? Is this my fault? Should I confront him about this or never talk to him again?

[preraph]

Sounds like he's way too touchy. Forget about him.

[ExpatInItaly]

Is he 5?

 

Don't have any more contact with him. No, it isn't your fault. He has the emotional maturity of a toddler. Stay away.

[mightycpa]

Maybe you just met his doppelganger.

[Joaquin]

He pretended not to know you.

 

All sorts of reasons. Suffice to say you won't be going on another date soon.

 

Just keep your dignity and ignore him in future.

[pteromom]

Here are the options:

 

- He is very immature and pretended not to know you because he was trying to get a date with one of those girls.

 

- One of those girls is his girlfriend or knows his girlfriend so he was playing stupid.

 

- He asks so many girls out that he can't even remember them all and actually DIDN'T remember who you were.

 

None of them = someone you want to date.

 

So chalk it up to "he's an idiot" and move on.

 

It is NOT your fault. How would it be? NO do NOT call him.

[I am Bud]

Dear xobeautyxoo

 

Being that you guys where together a few weeks ago and then you saw him with a bunch of girls the other day, it is obvious that he is a player looking out to have a good time. In fairness though you did say that you didn't want to hang out with him, so it's only a bit shocking now because he got over it so quickly. This is quite fortunate really because his behavior just confirmed your previous suspicion that he was just out for a booty call. You should definitely forget about him and go on about your business.

 

All the best - Bud.

[Assasda]

Well he asked you to hang out with him and you told him no.

Why would he have time for you now?

 

You saw him with other girls and you wanted his attention too, so he just wasnt having it.

 

 

He could have been a bit more cordial, but I say Kudos to him

[isisisweeping]

He was trying to get with or is with one of those girls.

 

 

I don't think he's worth the time to even care what or why. Delete his contact if you still have it and keep moving.