do ex girlfriends ever come back after a short term relationship (Updated)

[brickwalll]

I know i shouldn't. Ask this cause it shows im still weak but my gf of about 2 months broke up with me about 5 weeks ago and it was an intense relationship she and her mom told me how perfect i was. I was an absolute Gentleman. She told me how she saw me in her future and even told me she loved me already more than anyone else previously. She fell head over heels for me! She told me she wasn't. Ready for a relationship and that i was to judgmental. And that annoyed her. But she also said I'm. The only man she'd Want to be with right now and maybe we just need a break. I made the mistake of blowing up her phone that day and trying talk It through at one point she said she needs to think it over. Which i said no way this whole. Thing didn't. Seem to bother her one bit at all like she wasn't sad. I haven't. Talked. To her since a few days after the breakup. I'd. I'm in another relationship right now. But I'd. Like to know if there is a chance she will come back.

[mightycpa]

Sometimes Moms are the kiss of death... those young girls don't necessarily like their moms to approve of their boyfriends... not until later in life, anyway. But back to the question at hand:

 

Do they come back? Yes, sometimes... like yo-yo's. They come back, then leave, then come back, then leave.

 

It will drive you bat**** if you allow that to occur.

[evanescentworld]

You should be praying with every fibre of your being that she doesn't, because ripping out the stitches time and time again hurts more than the original wound ever did.

[dumbass2]

You should be praying with every fibre of your being that she doesn't, because ripping out the stitches time and time again hurts more than the original wound ever did.

 

Is it wrong of me to be ok if my ex tries to contact me again just so I can ignore her? she hasn't tried in 2 months now and I wish she would just so I could that. But then again, if I'm weak, I may give in if sex is involved. j/k

[evanescentworld]

Is it wrong of me to be ok if my ex tries to contact me again just so I can ignore her?

Goodness yes, that is just some crazy mixed-up nut-job thinking...

 

 

she hasn't tried in 2 months now and I wish she would just so I could that. But then again, if I'm weak, I may give in if sex is involved. j/k

There's many a true word said in jest. You need to steer as clear as it's humanly possible to do, because the way you are, and feel right now, I wouldn't put it past you...

[KaliLove]

I don't think she's coming back. Stop obsessing about your ex who you were with for 5 minutes and pay attention to your current girlfriend. Or let her go find someone who will.

Edited September 16, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[evanescentworld]

I know i shouldn't. Ask this cause it shows im still weak but my gf of about 2 months broke up with me about 5 weeks ago .....I'm in another relationship right now. But I'd. Like to know if there is a chance she will come back.

 

Oh my goodness me, how did I miss that bit?!

 

Your current GF doesn't deserve to be treated this way. If you're not over your ex, and you're obsessing about her in this way, you need to let her go, because she's an infill, a stop-gap, a rebound, a prop for you to nurse your broken heart with, and she deserves someone who will focus on her 100%, not play-act the BF while thinking about his ex all the time!

Edited September 17, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[brickwalll]

I need to know if she's over me? She broke up with me saying she's not ready for a relationship and after some prying(yes i tried To convise. Her to stay) I was to judgmental. And inpatient which she said really annoyed her. At one point she said she wants time and space to think her descion through which i at first agreed to than said no way and forced her final decision. She said if she was gonna be a relationship. Right now it would only be with me. She did the whole thing through text a few days after our last time together which she acted way different. She showed absolutey no remorse or sadness during this whole thing she broke up with me while she was with friends. It's like she didn't care at all! I tried texting her a month. After a break up telling her that i did something that me and her did toghther and how it reminded me of her. All she said was who's this I said me than no reply. Our relationship lasted about 2 months but it was intense. I was an absolute Gentleman which she said she's never been treated so well and how amazing I was she even accidentally told me she loved me and even said she sees me in her future. And would love to even marry me(scary i know) she was the sweetest girl I've dated. I'm. Just really confused how she can just turn those feelings off and go so cold and i feel like she gave me mixed signals during break up. I dont know what to think. If you read this please help

[d0nnivain]

The minute somebody tells you that they want to break up you assume that they are over you. Until they come back on their knees you assume they are not coming back.

 

I can't give you insight as to why she did what she did but on some level she felt pressure in the relationship & wanted out from under that.

 

Her equivocal statements to you are more her trying to be a nice person, not hurt your feelings or at least lessen the blow rather than a genuine desire to reconcile.