quidproquo89 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Am I right to think I'm on to something good? I started chatting on a dating website with a girl and we exchanged numbers and added each other on facebook. She later deleted her dating account. She said via txt that she hasn't been on a date for a year. She isn't good at them and gets very nervous. She wants to wait for someone special to date. We arranged a date, she said she was very nervous before we met. We chatted for hours, she smiled a lot and we asked each other questions back and forth. Very similar in interests, both introvert, animal orientated. She didn't come across as nervous at all but I think she was hiding it well. Plus points were she was continuously smiling and highly conversational. I said I had a great time, thank you. She thanked me back and said get home safely. I always initiate texting, which I guess isn't a big deal as men do the chasing. Her earlier comments about not just dating anybody and she said she felt bad about ignoring a lot of people on dating site - made me feel that she really wanted to be there, that she must have seen something in me. I messaged her briefly today, stating I had a good time. I asked her about her plans. She asked about mine. Then I asked if she would like to go to the zoo nest week. She said ''yeah cool, but lets confirm later in the week, when we know the weather will be good, fingers crossed!''. I think its going well so far. The only things I want to work on are that I'll have more in depth convo with her, shown that I've listened and try and build a connection better. She is very reserved and hasn't made it clear how she feels about me, but it is very early and she already told me she was nervous and shy. I'm hoping we can be very open with each other, feelings and all on our next meeting. And have a lot of fun at the zoo. I think it is going well do far?
mightycpa Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Meeee toooo. try not to overtext. leave something for your dates.
smackie9 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Am I right to think I'm on to something good? I started chatting on a dating website with a girl and we exchanged numbers and added each other on facebook. She later deleted her dating account. She said via txt that she hasn't been on a date for a year. She isn't good at them and gets very nervous. She wants to wait for someone special to date. We arranged a date, she said she was very nervous before we met. We chatted for hours, she smiled a lot and we asked each other questions back and forth. Very similar in interests, both introvert, animal orientated. She didn't come across as nervous at all but I think she was hiding it well. Plus points were she was continuously smiling and highly conversational. I said I had a great time, thank you. She thanked me back and said get home safely. I always initiate texting, which I guess isn't a big deal as men do the chasing. Her earlier comments about not just dating anybody and she said she felt bad about ignoring a lot of people on dating site - made me feel that she really wanted to be there, that she must have seen something in me. I messaged her briefly today, stating I had a good time. I asked her about her plans. She asked about mine. Then I asked if she would like to go to the zoo nest week. She said ''yeah cool, but lets confirm later in the week, when we know the weather will be good, fingers crossed!''. I think its going well so far. The only things I want to work on are that I'll have more in depth convo with her, shown that I've listened and try and build a connection better. She is very reserved and hasn't made it clear how she feels about me, but it is very early and she already told me she was nervous and shy. I'm hoping we can be very open with each other, feelings and all on our next meeting. And have a lot of fun at the zoo. I think it is going well do far? Good lord you have only been on one bloody date. Don't worry about the "in-depth" part. There are plenty of dates down the road for that to happen. Go with the flow, and just simply get to know one another. You can't force the intensity of feelings, they come when they come.
Author quidproquo89 Posted September 14, 2014 Author Posted September 14, 2014 Good lord you have only been on one bloody date. Don't worry about the "in-depth" part. There are plenty of dates down the road for that to happen. Go with the flow, and just simply get to know one another. You can't force the intensity of feelings, they come when they come. oh yeah, sorry that might have been a bit overblown. I have no intention of overdoing it in person or via texting. Just really want to make good convo, as I did in date 1 . Just come on here for a bit of input, cheers
Diezel Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 How is she supposed to make clear how she feels about you after one date? She already mentioned the "weather". That to me indicates that you need a Plan B, which means you need a secondary "indoor" plan. Don't let the "weather" be the reason why you two don't meet up. 1
Diezel Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Going to take a wild guess... he's around 25?
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