insidethemountain Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 (edited) ok so she's 16 im 19. we've been dating for almost two years. we got close to eachothers families and did a lot together even tho we live 40 mins apart. shes a super sweet girl but can be annoying at times. but recently she decides to break up with me. we definitely had something special but i guess things started to die down from certain cirumstances and what not. (crashed my car, lost my job, have no more money) i did no contact for a bout a month but recently we've been texting and we've been flirting. come to find out she kissed her ex boyfriend at a party and her "shirt came off" but "That was it". i dont really know how to feel, should i give her another chance? i mean i guess shes aloud to do that since we broke up but it was her ex? is that ****ed that she did that but shes been texting me cute things? should i just move on? am i ****ing stupid? im confused as i still care about her and shes hot as **** i just dont know if i approve of her actions. thanks in advance Edited September 14, 2014 by insidethemountain
preraph Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 I think if I were you, right now I'd concentrate on working extra and getting your car and life back together. She's probably a money sponge if she broke up because of that, so take this opportunity to not spend money and save money. And it sounds like she's pretty scattered out anyway, fooling around with her ex. She's very young. There's, as they say, plenty of fish in the sea. Get yourself back together and go fishin! 1
smackie9 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 (edited) She's young, and they will have a short attention span. She is way to young to deal with your adult problems. She is still just a kid, still living under her parents roof. Let her experience other boys. She is much too young to be stuck in a committed relationship. She would have lost interest along the line anyways. This goes for you too, you are way too young to stick with one girl. There is plenty of time to meet the girl of your dreams. Bang a few before you do. Variety is a good thing Edited September 14, 2014 by smackie9
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