Don22 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 My aunt works in an insurance firm and every year they get a poster with the employees who work at the two offices. I said to my aunt how one of the women in the poster was beautiful but my aunt really didn't know her but all of the employees are connect via email. My aunt asked the employee if it would be ok for me to email her and she said yes. I sent out a couple of emails and I said she was beautiful and she said she's in a relationship but wants to see my facebook page. Do I have a chance at dating this girl?
Diezel Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Probably not unless you are really good-looking. She already prefaced that there is little chance by saying she is with someone. She was either being polite to your aunt, or she's trying to maintain distance. Once she sees your face, she'll either: (A) Have a boyfriend (B) Tell you her relationship isn't that serious and she can go out with you. Already, I don't like it.
Author Don22 Posted September 14, 2014 Author Posted September 14, 2014 Yeah well I'm only average looking. I figured she had a bf. Even if she was single I think she would say she had bf until she found out what I look like and after emailing for awhile. I figure she is just curious to see what I look like.
preraph Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 She wants to see what you look like and what you're like by looking at your FB page. Realize all she knows about you is that your mom works where she works and that you think she's pretty. Probably all guys think she's pretty, so that doesn't do one single thing to distinguish you to her over any other guy. But at least she's giving your FB a look and you'll just have to see how she comes back. She may even say she doesn't want to make complications at work. If she comes back saying you look interesting or just asking you some questions, she's at least a little intrigued.
sid3 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Yes, you have a chance. You also have a chance at winning the lottery, getting struck by lightning etc. 1
mortensorchid Posted September 15, 2014 Posted September 15, 2014 Yes, you have a chance. You also have a chance at winning the lottery, getting struck by lightning etc. Agreed with above. If she has a long standing bf then she won't leave him for you. But you do have the same chances of this as you do of the above things.
Mister Zen Posted September 15, 2014 Posted September 15, 2014 Maybe. But if she has a boyfriend and she is willing to email you behind his back, then she will do the same to you when you start dating her.
Assasda Posted September 15, 2014 Posted September 15, 2014 Lets see. You already have her on the pedestal. & You sent her a message saying she was beautiful. Even if she would like you initially, you shot yourself in the foot. Work on your self esteem, and find out why you need to be validated by women
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