Buttercup84 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Little info: I am 30 and so is the guy that I am interested in. He lives a few hours away, but is plannig to mpve here for work. He is in my city pretty much all the time though. We met at a convention in June, were Fb friends and flirted a bit here and there. Lookwise, I was not at all attracted to him. He is overweight, balding etc. I know it sounds superfical, but I now see past that and find him attractive. But we got on so well, had a lot in common and he seemed nice. He does fitness everyday, so looks after his health. He kept saying we should meet for coffee nex time he was in town, but he kept forgetting and eventually we did meet up. It was nice and he paid. Almost right away he wanted to go to a movie and dinner with me soon. He was not very clear about the day, and the day before he said he could not make it due to work. He said he wanted to send me flowers to work to make up for it. I was excited, giddy and all that jazz. But the flowers never came (obviously he never sent them) He has not mentioned it and has been very quiet since. He still gives me compliments and said we could possibly catch up today. well, now it is 10pm and he did not even mention us meeting. I have no idea what he is about. Of courae I am moving on and not going to bother, because he is always canceling. But why would. man always make the move, want to arrange something then not go through with it ? He has not had a date in years he said.
Diezel Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Simple, he wants to keep you on the hook in case everything else that is a priority, suddenly drops and voila... there you are. You aren't his priority. Stop making him yours. 3
J2911 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Yeah its time to flip the page sweetheart and blow him off for sure . A lot of good guys still left out there who will send you flowers without giving you a heads up that he will send you flowers. That Is pointless to tell a girl you are or will send her flowers anyways to take the excitement out for her . Move on from that guy. 1
gaius Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Often times when a guy let's himself fall apart like that it's partially meant to show he doesn't really want something of a sexual nature. Being a fat slob is a good way of keeping people away. I guess you slipped through his defenses and he's trying to ward you off by being flakey and making fake promises instead.
smackie9 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Ever hear the term "all talk no action" ? Since he is the none attractive type, most likely he has been taken for a ride in the past by women, and he felt used. Now he is cautious, and just promises things to appease you, thinking it's not going to pan out anyways. He says he is into good healthy choices but that is false too. He has very low self esteem and lies to make himself look good, when he doesn't feel good about himself. This is his battle and he is just shooting himself in the foot. I suggest you move on unless you are into doing repair projects.
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