cottom Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 Had a girl for the past 2 years. I literally gave up everything for her, for examples: I got a job and she didnt want me to be far away so i commuted 3 hours to get to work each day and home again (plus a 10 hour shift). Work offered me to move to the capital to do my doctorate fully paid for plus my high wages followed by work travelling all around the world. I said i would take her and pay for her to come with me, her parents refused to let her leave (she was nearly 21), so I turned down the offer and as that stalled progress in my career had to change my dream career path. I wasn't allowed friends so had to give everybody up. Turns out everytime i walked out the door she was banging other guys, i found out about everything on my birthday this year which was kinda hard on me. But still almost 5 weeks on im hearing off her ex mates and other guys about more and more guys she cheated on me with. I met another girl but i find it so hard to not think that **** can be going on behind my back with her, though she seems so much nicer and more secure in herself. But when im alone all i can think is insecurities about myself and i feel it is just going to wreck my new relationship. Just can't cope anymore.
Author cottom Posted September 14, 2014 Author Posted September 14, 2014 It doesn't help that i went round with a couple groups of guys that i ditched because she didnt like me hanging around with them, they were "bad influences". S (name abbreviated): Broke up with his gf, slept with a girl at work then got back with his gf so she thought he was a bad influence F: Apparently we acted to childish because rather than go out get pissed we'd sit in chill with some drinks and watch the game or a film or something B,C,M,D,M,S: All of them were going out mates who used to sleep with hundreds of women behind their gfs backs ----------------------------------------------------------------------- S started meeting with guys from his job, that i introduced him to, we hang out but i realised its only when the others from work arent busy. F is my only real mate at the moment he makes time for me when it doesnt suit him etc B,C,M,D all were mates with the bitch aswell and shes gone accusing me of beating her even though i was working in Korea at the time and stuff to them to try and turn people against me (she used to sleep with them before she met me) so they all dont bother with me. M and S both i see but they moved out to other cities now so its only over text.
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