wackles Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 So this is the story fellas, My girlfriend and I have been super duper close and have been dating for nearly two years now. We've literally gone through a lot together, we are both young, thus we were each other's firsts in many things. So we went into University together, we're both freshmen, and now things have changed... This past summer I went on vacation for three weeks from mid August to the end of the month, so naturally I didn't see her at all. We skyped when we could, and we messaged each other when we could. She would tell me how much she missed me and how much she couldn't wait till I came back. The day I came back she was moving into her new dorm, so naturally I didn't see her, and we were both busy preparing for university. Then frosh came, and during frosh we barely talked, or should i say, she barely talked. I would text her constantly (like we always did) but I would have to wait an hour, two hours for just a few words from her, it was brutal. She was getting super close with her floormates and I was alone, since I'm not staying on res. Every time I asked to hangout she would be busy with her new friends, and it was never like that before. She never asked me to hang out, and although we only saw each other for a total of about 4 hours during the whole 5 days of frosh, which completely baffled me because coming back from vacation I thought she'd want to see me as much as I wanted to see her. So I got mad, and I texted her complaints, telling her that I felt like I was replaced and that I wanted to see her more often but she felt like I was attacking her, and eventually she told me to drop the subject together. I asked her to Skype one day (we haven't been able to get much one on one talks since i left for my vacation) yet she said she was too busy making dream catchers with her roommates. And that's when I got so mad, asking her what happened to her, asking her how is it that for three weeks she told me how she couldn't wait to see me, and how much she loved me etc etc and now she can't even take some time out of her day to talk to me. So that's when she said she felt like I was suffocating her, that I was complaining too much, and that she needed a break. This was last Monday, and I haven't spoken to her since, nor do I plan to, but I can't help but wonder what happens now. And what happened to her ? She always told me how much she loved me, how she wanted to marry me, how she wanted to move in with me next year, how amazing I was, and in literally a week it turned 180 degrees and now here I am, wondering what happened to the girl I love, did I lose her forever? Thanks
Jord11 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 (edited) They changed there minds a lot, it seems like she wants to be distant from you, but you know what changed that around and be distant from her, it's all bs games, don't be too invested in it and trust me don't beg or plea too her, don't be a doormat too her I know it's tough I've been through it all brother, have to be a man about it and what ever she does or the game she is playing, you're stronger then that, don't beg or plea I'm saying it again because it is so important, live you're life without her, girls will say a lot during a relationship but don't believe everything, I've been through that as well Edited September 14, 2014 by Jord11
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