Emissary Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 So today we did coffee, and it was just great. We walked a bit and admitted we're feeling some chemistry, she hugged me and we briefly talked about maybe kissing next time. On Monday we're planning on going for a walk through one of our favourite trails. I'm going to try holding her hand, as well as going for the first kiss, It almost felt right at the end of today's date. She's a Marvel film fanatic as said she wants to see Guardians of the Galaxy again. So I'm thinking our third date will be that. I don't know if I'd plan on taking things any further on the third date, maybe just us both being more comfortable being intimate with each other. I'm just wondering, we both agreed we want to ease into a relationship, so casual is the way of the game I guess, but is that too casual, should we do dinner or something?
mightycpa Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 It doesn't matter what you do, as long as you enjoy yourselves together. Plan a little something after where you can talk... ice cream, a walk, whatever. Relationships feel best when they grow organically and without an agenda. 2
smackie9 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 I think you are misinterpreted what she meant by taking things casual. She doesn't want talk of marriage and kids, meeting the parents, I love you, texting 24/7, and all that serious stuff, she wants to get to know you first. Going out for dinner and doing fun things together is just fine. And being physical like kissing, making out is OK too. Just be cool about it until things feel like they are warming up. 2
Author Emissary Posted September 14, 2014 Author Posted September 14, 2014 It doesn't matter what you do, as long as you enjoy yourselves together. Plan a little something after where you can talk... ice cream, a walk, whatever. Relationships feel best when they grow organically and without an agenda. I think my agenda is very organic. Both the confirmed date and the hopeful third date will have all spawned from our mutual shared interests that we expressed to each other. 1
Mister Zen Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 With dating.. over-thinking is always your enemy. Just relax and enjoy her company. Do what you like to do. Don't do things you don't like just because its what you see people on TV or your friends doing. Get my point? 1
Gloria25 Posted September 14, 2014 Posted September 14, 2014 I like the progression of your dates and the planning for the next ones... Sounds like you're doing fine to me...
Author Emissary Posted September 14, 2014 Author Posted September 14, 2014 With dating.. over-thinking is always your enemy. Just relax and enjoy her company. Do what you like to do. Don't do things you don't like just because its what you see people on TV or your friends doing. Get my point? It will be as I will it to be.
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