Atticus9292012 Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 (edited) I had this friend I always liked that I knew through mutual friends. Well, at some point it turned romantic. Well, when I got involved with him, I knew he was moving. So when things started I told him I wanted just a casual thing. We began seeing each other. Well, I started to develop feelings for him. I told him as much, and if we weren't on the same page things needed to end. He told me he wanted to see where things went and didn't want to give me an answer at that point in time. Things were still pretty new and i accepted this. Well we continued to see each other and things just got more and more intense. He was taking me on dates and kissing me and holding my hand in public in front of all our friends. All of our friends thought we were together which got kind of awkward. He told me he loved me one night. We were really drunk and so at the time I dismissed it as much. Well, when he left he told me he couldn't offer me more than a friendship. I was crushed by this, but I tried to accept that and respect that. He was supposed to visit a week later and he made a big deal about seeing me. He then left town without telling me and I had to find out by calling him. We talked the next day and he apologized, but I decided to end our friendship. A couple of weeks pass. I go on dates and get some distance from it. I call him tell him I want to be friends and he said he'd let me set the pace of things. I sent him 4 text messages over the course of two weeks after that that go ignored. One I tell him if he's gonna be my friend, I don't like being ignored. He includes me in a group text yesterday about passing the bar exam. We both took it in different states at the end of july. I wasn't going to respond but I tell him congrats. He responded thanks . I say "I guess you're talking to me now?" We got into a huge fight. We texted back or forth for probably an hour. I tried to call him as i hate having figjts that way but he said no. He called me ridiculous. I finally said that I was sorry if my behavior was ridiculous. I tried to be as open and transparent about my feelings and misunderstood that he cared about me and good luck. I also brought up the night he said he loved me and how that really messed with my head and confused me and wished him well. I can't say I have any desire to even speak to him after everything that happened and he called me ridiculous. I really can't say I'd handle it differently. Maybe I'm really crazy? Edited September 13, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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