anna121 Posted September 15, 2014 Posted September 15, 2014 You do take a risk of ruining it, for her, by bringing up what seems like more of a commitment than she may be willing to make right now. But if so, it means that you two simply are not on the same page. It sounds like this is very important to you, so important that you are likely willing to take that risk if it ensures that you will know where she stands. If you cannot stand going on without knowing, then ask her. It could work out great, or terribly. There are no guarantees, and there is no way to "subtly" ask this question.
Author jjtr Posted September 15, 2014 Author Posted September 15, 2014 Decisions, decisions. This is what I hate about dating. If she likes me like, she should be happy I say/ask, right? If I didn't think things had started off so well, I wouldn't think about mentioning it yet. But the communication every day, even if just via text, while we were both away on vacation said a lot. And since then it has been consistent contact every day. She made a joke before, and said she felt bad, about me thinking she was dating a bunch of other guys because she couldn't recall if we discussed a certain topic and that clearly she wasn't, because she couldn't remember details about one. I initially thought, sure isn't dating anyone else, but I also wonder if maybe it was the truth.
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