shz93 Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Hello. It's been a couple of months since the break up. Im still completely devastated and so heartbroken but it's getting easier to deal with. Anyway, I'm writing this because my ex keeps messaging me. She is currently on holiday with friends, and text me two nights ago saying 'you f*cking moved on fast' and then proceeded to message that my dog is her dog too and she wants to see her. I said no. Why is she messaging me and why would she care if I'd moved on or not? She was the one to make the decision to end things. I'm still completely and utterly in love with her and would love to work things out but I get the impression she's starting to hate me! I haven't done anything wrong, I've been nothing but nice when we do talk even if she's being nasty.
tim_tom Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Hello. It's been a couple of months since the break up. Im still completely devastated and so heartbroken but it's getting easier to deal with. Anyway, I'm writing this because my ex keeps messaging me. She is currently on holiday with friends, and text me two nights ago saying 'you f*cking moved on fast' and then proceeded to message that my dog is her dog too and she wants to see her. I said no. Why is she messaging me and why would she care if I'd moved on or not? She was the one to make the decision to end things. I'm still completely and utterly in love with her and would love to work things out but I get the impression she's starting to hate me! I haven't done anything wrong, I've been nothing but nice when we do talk even if she's being nasty. imo.. She is self centered. Wants her cake and eat it too. Her hope was that you would crawl into the fetal position and stay there waiting until she needed some emotional support or an ego boost from you. She probably is mad at you, my dumper is mad at me for not doing things her way. It's BS and while I know it's hard, it should show you exactly what you are dealing with. Someone who only thinks about them selves, and only thinks about you in terms of what you can do for them.
Always Pondering Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Why haven't you followed through with strict NC by now? This includes blocking her number so that she CAN'T text you. I've read your other threads and this should have been done since Day 1. She wants to check up on you and see how you're doing. You clearly own the dog now and not her, she's more than likely using it as an excuse to see you. Block her number, today. As a matter of fact you should do it as soon as you read this. I hope you're liking your university by the way. 1
mightycpa Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Why haven't you followed through with strict NC by now? This includes blocking her number so that she CAN'T text you. I've read your other threads and this should have been done since Day 1. She wants to check up on you and see how you're doing. You clearly own the dog now and not her, she's more than likely using it as an excuse to see you. Block her number, today. As a matter of fact you should do it as soon as you read this. I hope you're liking your university by the way. Yeah, that. She wants you to be her dog too. She's a little offended by your ability to NC. She wants you to grovel... BEG, dog, BEG! **** that, amirite? You hang in there, and let her get upset. Just remember, she's not upset because you don't want her back. She's upset because she misjudged you to be a spineless wimp that would feed her ego even though she has no other use for you. You just keep that in mind when you feel like responding to those texts, or reaching out any other way. 1
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