Grevensteiner Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 I met a girl 2,5 months ago. I'm 21, she's 19. For the first month we've been meeting alone on a friends level, I didn't initiate any moves, she did not either. After that month, I tried to kiss her and got rejected. A couple of days later she kissed my friend (a girl). I got angry, but then she like an hour later she kissed me either. I thought things will go easy now, but every our later meeting contained me trying to kiss her, and her turning the head. I kissed her maybe like a couple of times, very passionately though, with a lot of touching. One time she even began to shake when I tried to kiss her. And even though it was strange, she still wants to meet alone, or go out with me and my friends. She's not afraid of touching at all, she's really hot, she even gave me a lapdance ------------------- Ok, great, but where's the problem? She dances with other dudes at the parties, she picks up some guy from another, distant city (he's been at her house for a weekend like two weeks ago). And she tells me it's not anything serious. Two days ago I got angry and told her that I can't meet with her on that level and want to move things a little bit forward. And she replied: that she doesn't want to get emotionaly attached, because she had bad relationship (which I know is true). She also told me she's afraid she will get attached because she gets along with me very well, and she's pretty attracted to me. Also, she's not ready to get attached generally, not only to me (she told me that, yes, I asked - I ****ed up many things here and all was well, why not also this one?). She told she just wants to have fun, because nobody controls her, and she can do whatever she wants. Right now I'm trying to be even more direct and get relationship with sex only, without emotional attachment But I guess she doesn't wanna agree to this, she told last time she had sex was a couple of months ago, and that it's something special to her, that she has rules. Well..what can I do about it?
doeblin Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 (edited) How many threads are you going to post about this girl? People on Loveshack told you over and over that: She is NOT a keeper.She is playing with you. You are her lapdog. (All quotes from the previous threads)Move on.Date other girls. What else do you expect us to tell you? Anything changed in the last 2 weeks? Edited September 13, 2014 by doeblin
GemmaUK Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 She doesn't want any kind of a relationship with you aside from friendship. She is already aware you have some emotional attachment. By saying that you are being more direct and trying for a sexual relationship without emotional attachment sounds like you are trying to be manipulative. Being manipulated is the absolute last thing she wants.
Purepony Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 This kid wants hope! Here's the plan kid.. if she calls ignore her, if she texts ignore her! Sit back relax, go out and live while she goes into panick mode
Diezel Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Game over. You're already emotionally attached. Move on.
mightycpa Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 What you want from this girl and what you're going to get sound like two different things, at least for now. I didn't read the other thread. So, on the one hand, go date other girls and have sex with them. If you can stand to see her "have fun", then let her have fun. Tell her that you'll continue to hang out with her sometimes, and you won't give her a hard time about having fun, but that you've got some rules too, and one of those rules is that she has to make out with you at least once a week, for at least 30 minutes. If she's not willing to do that, then that's fine, but you're not looking for a female wing man. See where that takes you.
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