Mia123 Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 (edited) I’m around 26 and I'am single.My family is wanting me to hook up with someone good. I have many male friends but may be because of the nature of my job, never got enough time to go for a date. I still don’t have I guy in my life. I’m okay with it but my friends and my family are forcing me to get into a relationship. Finally I have decided to approach a dating service. I contacted a matchmaking service at Thornhill. After an enjoyable consultation and sleepless night I’m about to meet my first referral. Since this is my first time I do not know how to behave for my “first date” . Is there any kind of dating etiquettes? How am I supposed to judge the guy? Please advice. Edited September 13, 2014 by Mia123
Assasda Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Think of him as a friend. You dont want to be rude to a friend, You dont want a friend to be rude to you. _ Youre justing getting to know this person at this point
Dallers Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Be yourself. He will do most of the work in terms of the date itself you just need to respond to his questions, be interesting and show your quality. Ask him the questions you want to know and test him a little. At the end of the day unless you are hardcore dating and a pro all you can do is just be yourself and enjoy it. Have fun. Try not to worry too much. End up in your bed alone at the end of the night.
deathandtaxes Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 I'll add this - if you really like him, ask him out again before the end of the first date. Or at least hint at it. No games. No waiting x number of days to text back, etc.
preraph Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Don't talk about anything serious. Just talk about what you like to do for fun and find out what he likes to do for fun. Don't interview him so you can judge him. Don't talk about marriage. I don't know why you haven't found the desire to date before now, but if you want to date and find a guy, then don't talk about that you never cared about dating before, because that's a red flat at your age. Don't talk about having kids or how much money you make. Just try to have a fun night and enjoy his company. Thank him briefly by text or email sometime the next day and wait and see if he asks you out again. Don't recontact unless you hear from him.
Tayken Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 I'll add this - if you really like him, ask him out again before the end of the first date. Or at least hint at it. No games. No waiting x number of days to text back, etc. Ahahaha....yes, but how many can really get their heads out of their cloud, to follow through with this? 1
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