Diesel Posted March 4, 2005 Posted March 4, 2005 Me and my girlfriend have been together for more than three years and we have decided to marry eachothers ( not now ) she is 14 and i'm turning 16 soon , we are in deep love and can't live without eachothers , we study in the same school and see eachothers everyday , everything is OK. we fight alot , i'm not talking the fight when you hit someone , i'm talking about fights , arguments etc , we fight on little things recently we had a big break-up it was her fault and later she realised and came to 'sorry' me and we are now patched up but still we fight , let me explain ya Me : so are you gonna call me when you get to home? She : i'll try if i can.. Me : try what do you mean? you'll be in home whole day....just call me at 3 ok? she : i'm not sure i said i'll try.. me : i think you are no more interested in talkin to me , maybe i'm just your timepass though i know thats untrue but still i cant get rid of these kind of fights.
Sckott Posted March 4, 2005 Posted March 4, 2005 Sounds like you're pressuring her. I know this sounds familiar, but being under 18, I can see this relationship having a crashpoint more than likely if you push. Heck, even GOOD relationships at that age don't last. You need something else to do instead of relying on her for passing the time. People don't like to be pressured, male or female.
Hund1976 Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 You've been dating for three years and she is 14? So you started dating when she was 11? Enjoy your youth. 14 and 16 is way to young to be thinking about marraige.
fundamental Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 Originally posted by Hund1976 You've been dating for three years and she is 14? So you started dating when she was 11? Enjoy your youth. 14 and 16 is way to young to be thinking about marraige. Maybe he has the numbers transposed.... he could be almost 61 and her 41?!?!?
Hund1976 Posted March 5, 2005 Posted March 5, 2005 Maybe he has the numbers transposed.... he could be almost 61 and her 41?!?!? I hope so, but it doesn't sound like it since they are seeing eachother every day in school. That's crazy that parents would let an 11 year old have a boyfriend. She should be playing with barbies or making treats in her tastybake oven, not out hooking up with guys.
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