Whyfall4nothing Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 My ex and I broke up a while ago and she never really gave me any closure. In fact she did not treat me well at all and I have no idea why I still care. I was the one who cut the contact mainly because she'd use me for her own satisfaction of an ego trip or to have someone there when she needed it. Anyways about a few weeks prior to her contacting me, I noticed that a lot of her tweets on twitter were kind of depressing, like she was missing someone. Then one day out of the blue she contacted me asking if I hated her and if I knew who it was that was texting. I told her No, I have no idea who this is (because why should I be nice when she didn't care about anything I wanted in the past like friendship etc.). She didn't respond, so I waited a few days and asked her "why didn't you tell me that it was you and no I don't hate you why do you ask? . She said that "I was just wondering you randomly came across my mind so I just wanted to know" and I was like "Alright"…..(Because she has been so cold to me in the past that I don't know if I should open up to her and what her motives really are). then she replied with "sorry" and then i asked her "For?" and No response. She hasn't talked to me since and seemed really sad. Do you think I did the right thing in not giving her too much back? It seems that if she really wanted to be in my life she would have carried on the conversation or at least made an effort. But from what she texted it seems like she closed down right away and wasn't willing to let me in. What are your thoughts just curious?
lauri Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 I think you should have not even bothered responding to her in the first place. She was just testing the waters to see if you will communicate with her..for all you know she is having troubles with another guy and is looking for a new safety net to land back onto. Don't think too much into this. If she had something worth saying, she would have. She's just messaging you for her own purposes. For example, did she even care about how you are doing? All she cares about is you do not hate her. Now that you have told her you don't, you may have relieved her guilt and now she probably doesn't have much of a reason to contact you. 2
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