malin819 Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 Hi again folks I met a nice young woman OLD and we have texted pretty much all week. We are suppose to have plans tomorrow but I have never see or talk to her and she sent me a bunch of nudes Wednesday and yesterday. Not that I didn't find it fun but I never met someone who would do this before. It gave me some sort of 50/50 vibe since we didn't have any sort of communication except txts. I always wanted a woman that would respect herself and not be...that easy? Considering pulling the plug tomorrow..
mightycpa Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 Never look a gift whorse in the mouth. You forgot to rate her on a 10-point scale.
d0nnivain Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 Don't stand her up but if the nudes made you uncomfortable tell her that when you cancel. 7
mightycpa Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 Don't stand her up but if the nudes made you uncomfortable tell her that when you cancel. DV, you express these things so much better than I do!
Author malin819 Posted September 12, 2014 Author Posted September 12, 2014 Don't stand her up but if the nudes made you uncomfortable tell her that when you cancel. Yep you're right!!
jimbeck Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 Honestly, it could be a worse at least she shows interest. I've had three recent meet ups that ended with absolutely no prospects for dating. For me, if I was willing to meet someone and they sent me nudes at this point in time in my OLD experience I would find it refreshing.
deathandtaxes Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 OP, it's obvious what she wants, if she's real. Nudes before meeting? Only if I'm wanting a straight hook up and nothing more. Listen to your gut on this one.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 Maybe she's a pro. That was my first thought! Bring cash! 1
Mrin Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 That was my first thought! Bring cash! Ya, could be a pro. If she doesn't have the pro vibe, then I'd go ahead and go through with it just out of curiosity. I've always wondered what people who would do that are like in person.
Fondue Posted September 12, 2014 Posted September 12, 2014 I'd be very wary of this one. That kind of behavior, especially prior to any meetup at all, is questionable... To say the least. I'd either never meet up with her, or approach the situation with extreme caution. I would never consider her a serious dating prospect. Maybe just a "fling."
Gloria25 Posted September 13, 2014 Posted September 13, 2014 Well what do you want? Do you want to bed her or date her? I don't know about women (cuz I don't date them), but IMO, most guys online are looking for hook-ups...I guess that's what she wants. Make sure you wear a rubber dude
Author malin819 Posted September 15, 2014 Author Posted September 15, 2014 So I decided to go on a date with her finally We spent the day together and went for dinner afterwards. We proceeded to go watch some movies at my place in the evening. Fun night but I don't recall any of the movies
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