I really like you!

[disneygogetter]

If your getting to know someone texting and talking to them on the phone for like 2-4 days then meet up on the 5th day your first date. That night they tell you they really like you, should you be happy about this or be alarmed?

 

Because I have heard of this sort of thing happen before where the guy or girl likes the person and talks to them constantly not leaving them alone, and wants them and only them etc.

 

What would you do in a situation like this or have you dealt with someone like this before, when you were barely starting to date them?

[azureorb]

Saying "I really like you!" -- well, yeah, they would assume that if you talked a lot then met and the date/meetup went well. They're assuming you mean More than that.

 

You could be FUNNY with that response by saying "You know what, I'm kinda surprised after actually meeting you -- I actually like you... you're supposed to be riddled with flaws! ;)"

 

But in the spirit of what you're talking about, you just say you had a great time with them, and you're really looking forward to going out again. Just enthusiasm will tell the tale.

[Assasda]

You should play devils advocate a little, and say "Wait until you get to know me first"

[angel.eyes]

You're overthinking this...

 

Do you like him so far? Then go with the flow and give him some positive feedback.

 

Are you not interested? Then tell him you enjoyed meeting him, but you don't feel you're a match.

 

Keep things simple.

[mightycpa]

Wait, I thought you were exclusive with somebody else? Are you cheating on him with this new one?

[disneygogetter]

Wait, I thought you were exclusive with somebody else? Are you cheating on him with this new one?

 

I have not been exclusive to any one just been talking to guys and seeing who I click with the most.

[Lani]

I think it's really sweet.. Not enough people throw out things like that these days.

I've had it happen to me, and responded with a 'Well I think you're pretty great too'. It doesn't need to be huge, and it doesn't make you exclusive, it's just letting eachother know what you think.

[Gloria25]

I think "like" is ok...

 

But all the "intensity" of 2-4 days of chatting - where do you breathe here?

 

Now that my memory serves me correct, I remember years ago I had like my first phone chat with a guy and we talked ALL NIGHT...And, while yes, the convo went on so long because we had things we could discuss - it was like too much too soon...

 

IMO, you gotta develop the connection - too much, too soon takes away from that.

[you_can_not_see_me]

If your getting to know someone texting and talking to them on the phone for like 2-4 days then meet up on the 5th day your first date. That night they tell you they really like you, should you be happy about this or be alarmed?

 

Because I have heard of this sort of thing happen before where the guy or girl likes the person and talks to them constantly not leaving them alone, and wants them and only them etc.

 

What would you do in a situation like this or have you dealt with someone like this before, when you were barely starting to date them?

just tell him/her you like him/her too, but that you guys should not get too ahead of yourself.