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LS,

 

 

Been messaging a guy from OLD. He reached out to me first. I'm not sure if its his personality or he has or is losing interest, but his messages are rather mundane and too casual. He has taken a few days off from work to visit his family about three hours away and I've seen him on line but his messages come several hours later. I'm sure he is messaging other women. What's the next step if there is one?

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Tell the gentleman to enjoy himself and to let you know when he's back if he's interested in meeting up. Then get busy going out on coffee-dates with men that are there and ready.

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Set up a date to meet with him.

Get his phone number if youre so inclined, to kinda feel him out before hand.

Then try to meet

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LS,

 

 

Been messaging a guy from OLD. He reached out to me first. I'm not sure if its his personality or he has or is losing interest, but his messages are rather mundane and too casual. He has taken a few days off from work to visit his family about three hours away and I've seen him on line but his messages come several hours later. I'm sure he is messaging other women. What's the next step if there is one?

 

I have to say he is not interested, in you enough to pursue. I hope there are others that you have contact with. Not having enough time with others can skew your thinking and make you vulnerable to simple contact.

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In either case, I would let this one go. If the messages are mundane then there's really no chemistry. Why push it?

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In either case, I would let this one go. If the messages are mundane then there's really no chemistry. Why push it?

 

Going to disagree completely here.

 

Not everyone comes off well with text conversation. Some are just better than others when it comes to words.

 

Meet him in person before you decide to "next" him.

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