Lookingfor Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 So I was talking with this woman by phone (woman 25-30, not a girl) and we were having a nice talk. I asked her if she was still going for a run (she makes exercise daily). She told me she couldnt because "she was in her days". So my question is a woman that share this info is not interested? Am i overthinking? If I look for meaning of this comment in google most of the sites says that im in the "friendzone". I really like this woman, she told me that I have abandoned her because we dont hang that much anymore but I have been very busy with my thesis and another activities. Im just looking for opinions of the women in this forum, do you share this kind of information only with platonic friends? Sorry for my bad english, english is not my native language. I could give more details but I really dont know how to write them, lol. Cheers, and thank you for your time.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 Some periods are difficult on a woman. Running may not be what she is capable of doing at the time. The times when my mates would talk about it was open and not of any importance as to interests in me. Just FYI, as in expecting a change in temper and so on.
Candy_Pants Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 Uhmm, it means she's not ashamed of her normal bodily functions. It most likely has nothing to do with you, or her interest level in you. 3
PegNosePete Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 she told me that I have abandoned her because we dont hang that much anymore I think this says more about your relationship than her mentioning her period. 3
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 Uhmm, it means she's not ashamed of her normal bodily functions. It most likely has nothing to do with you, or her interest level in you. Just noticed your sig... I don't think you want to set a 50 mega ton nuclear reaction and vaporize you and everything else, so you may want cold fusion instead. 1
Author Lookingfor Posted September 11, 2014 Author Posted September 11, 2014 Some periods are difficult on a woman. Running may not be what she is capable of doing at the time. The times when my mates would talk about it was open and not of any importance as to interests in me. Just FYI, as in expecting a change in temper and so on. Thank you for all your answers, it is very important for me. Truth to be told, I do have social anxiety, but I have been getting better with the time. I do have friends that aprecciate me (Didnt have them before), Im finishing my master degree, Im working out, Im giving class,etc. This is a HUGE improvement of how my life was before, I feel happy with myself, and I really would like to share this "happiness" with this woman, lol, well thank you anyway. P.S. Most of the advices on the internet are for teenagers, so feel awkward and I dont think they apply for someone of my age.
mightycpa Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 It means her vocal filter is set a little lower than you're used to. You might want to consider what other things will come out of her mouth that will make you uncomfortable. 2
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 Thank you for all your answers, it is very important for me. Truth to be told, I do have social anxiety, but I have been getting better with the time. I do have friends that aprecciate me (Didnt have them before), Im finishing my master degree, Im working out, Im giving class,etc. This is a HUGE improvement of how my life was before, I feel happy with myself, and I really would like to share this "happiness" with this woman, lol, well thank you anyway. P.S. Most of the advices on the internet are for teenagers, so feel awkward and I dont think they apply for someone of my age. IMO Many women are comfy with period talk as long as it is not TMI. maybe they are comfy around me, as i don't come off like men do in genral. As i don't get into the sexual side or dirty side in comments. i guess it is that i understand that they are sharing without having to look over their shoulder. Once a woman trusts you on your ablilties to accept them as they are, they allow surprisingly interesting things about themselves that you may not expect. In a wee way it leaves you feeling a pit prudish if you are not inclined with such sharing of matters. not that they want to know everything about penis function, just some find it refreshing to hear about something they never knew about in a guys personaly intimate and private bit of info about themselves. that can be shared a bit further in te relationship. A periods are not that intimate as guys think. They are thought of as a body function, like a fart, having to pee, ect... just they happen and cannot be ingored. 1
d0nnivain Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 No it doesn't mean anything in terms of how to gauge her interest in you.
Candy_Pants Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 Just noticed your sig... I don't think you want to set a 50 mega ton nuclear reaction and vaporize you and everything else, so you may want cold fusion instead. That all depends on the day my dear .
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 That all depends on the day my dear . ah, i gathered that. Sort of.. Destroy me with your unbridled burning passion, or see my wrath put upon you!
Gaeta Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 I will never ever make a comment about my period to a man I am dating if I have not been intimate with him already.
slizl Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 Just means, you aren't getting sex for a few days
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