aquietgirl20 Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 I'm going to keep it brief as to not bore you guys on here I want to know where this is headed with this guy. I'm dating a guy for 1.5 months. I have told him I'm not very s*xual. He said "it's okay , neither am i. I'm not crazy about s*x". I told him MANY TIMES to find someone who might be more s*xual than me. He never does. It doesn't matter how many times I've turned him down, he doesn't want to find anyone else (We only did it twice btw). He is not dating anyone else or having s*x, I'm sure of it. He goes to work and goes home. I've even seen his phone once, he mostly talks to his guy friends. He also ALWAYS tries to prove his loyalty. He says where he was last night, what he's doing, and what he did with his friends. Now he's very distant ...he barely texts me.. Why? Does he like me? why keep me around? When we first met, that he doesn't know if he wants a relationship . Don't know if he changed his mind? Why be loyal if you don't want a relationship??
mightycpa Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 He says where he was last night, what he's doing, and what he did with his friends. Now he's very distant ...he barely texts me.. Why? Welcome to a sexless relationship. I'm not saying don't do it. I'm saying it will not be all hearts and flowers and togetherness.
Author aquietgirl20 Posted September 11, 2014 Author Posted September 11, 2014 Welcome to a sexless relationship. I'm not saying don't do it. I'm saying it will not be all hearts and flowers and togetherness. i just want to know if he wants a relationship or not. s*x is whatever to me
mightycpa Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 i just want to know if he wants a relationship or not. s*x is whatever to me He will reveal his intentions very quickly if he does not. It won't take long before you're sure. But maybe you missed my point. Your relationship will not be all that lovey-dovey stuff. You probably won't hang out all the time, because as much as sex is about physical pleasure, a great deal of it is about knocking down the barriers to intimacy. It is about being together. Sex is all about being together. Take away the sex, and you're dealing with a couple of people for whom being together very closely is not that big of a deal. That was my point.
Assasda Posted September 11, 2014 Posted September 11, 2014 I'm going to keep it brief as to not bore you guys on here I want to know where this is headed with this guy. I'm dating a guy for 1.5 months. I have told him I'm not very s*xual. He said "it's okay , neither am i. I'm not crazy about s*x". I told him MANY TIMES to find someone who might be more s*xual than me. He never does. It doesn't matter how many times I've turned him down, he doesn't want to find anyone else (We only did it twice btw). He is not dating anyone else or having s*x, I'm sure of it. He goes to work and goes home. I've even seen his phone once, he mostly talks to his guy friends. He also ALWAYS tries to prove his loyalty. He says where he was last night, what he's doing, and what he did with his friends. Now he's very distant ...he barely texts me.. Why? Does he like me? why keep me around? When we first met, that he doesn't know if he wants a relationship . Don't know if he changed his mind? Why be loyal if you don't want a relationship?? OP you seem insecure in yourself. sex isnt the most important thing in the world. What matters is if you guys are having fun and enjoying each other. If that insecurity is stopping you from being a fun girl, he might just have to move on
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