I am in a bad situation with a girl, but want to get closer to her. How do I get clos

[sabett]

There was a girl in my class, who I liked, but I barely talked to her. Near the end of that year, I started chatting her with my fb. She did not know who it was though. I said stuff like she was beautiful and I liked her. But she blocked me. I didn't realize my mistake then. I chatted her again with a different account saying the same kind of stuff. She blocked me again. Then she blocked me in all accounts. Then through my friend's account I chatted her asking why she blocked me. She said that "You are so f***ing creepy" and "Don't chat me again". She realized that it was me who did the previous chats. Then the summer went by and a new school year started. What can I do to improve my situation with her and get her closer to me? Is it even possible because she now thinks I am creepy? Could I possibly ever get her to go to homecoming with me which is in October?

[cerridwen]

It's unlikely she'll ever be interested.

And sorry, sabett, but I can't say I blame her.

 

I'd recommend that next time, don't approach on FB--and certainly not with anonymous compliments and come-ons.

Get to know the girl in person.

Establish a rapport.

Make her laugh.

Then don't come on so strong.

Ask if she'd like to do something together and go from there.

 

No more creepy, okay?