yeahnahyeah Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 Hey all, can just imagine the replies to this now but i think it could be good for me to write this down and analyze myself. Aim: date this girl. This girl and I have a mutual friend that hooked us up (made out alot one night) and afterwards we talked abit on facebook (me initiating). I asked her out and she said she was busy with exams, which was a big red flag to me (mainly because she didn't suggest a different time) but we still talked and she was responsive. After about a week I told my mutual friend that talking to her is really difficult (actually more or less said it's similar to bashing my head against a wall) because she takes so long to reply and said mutual friend told her what i said. She starts ignoring messages (even double messaged, so rookie) after this and we phased out. Then mutual friend tells me she does still like me and to wait abit and message her again. She ignores that one aswell. We see eachother out and I got the vibe off her that she did still like me but we hardly spoke. Anyway, friend is trying to get us to hang out more by saying we should go to some concert but i'm not sure if it's her suggesting or the friend. Any advice with where this girls head is or how to proceed.
Assasda Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 Hey I live in TX, and I know this rabid coyote that is really into you. He tells me that he's really into you. If you message him he wont respond, but he really likes you. Please follow this rabid coyote around and shend him double messages, beause sometimes he makes a booboo and misses all your messages. I promise he still likes you 4
Supernatural Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 Man, fvvk this. This girl is being ridiculous. Why would you still try to pursue her? She is actively ignoring you. She doesn't like you. And if she does... Well she is mentally fvvcked, brah. Move on. No girl is that hot that she can diss me like that and expect me to chase. I allowed that once... That was too many times. Never again. You're better than this. 1
Supernatural Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 (edited) Ahh right... The real reason why I enetered this thread... "If you're having girl problems, I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a bit*h ain't one. HIT ME!" Edited September 10, 2014 by Supernatural 1
d0nnivain Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 the next time you see the well meaning friend who is trying to push you together tell her you are done with the other girl's head games & you are not interested in chasing her. Tell the friend that the girl knows where you find you but until you hear from her, you are never reaching out again. Then go off & date another girl who is actually into you.
PegNosePete Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 And tell your friend to stop playing games with you.
Zahara Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 Any advice with where this girls head is or how to proceed. Her head isn't anywhere close to you. Forget what the friend is telling you because if she was really interested, she would be reciprocating. Sometimes it's just as simple as that. No need for analyzing. And if she's a game player because these types of push and pull tactics make her feel secure and in control, then you should be out there dating women that don't need to hide behind games. Double messaging? I cringed. Don't chase a woman to the point you look desperate. If anything, you've already planted that seed so step back and tell your friend that if she is interested, she can reach out to you. There is no need for her to keep playing matchmaker.
slizl Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 WAIT! Is your mutual friend a woman???? I think I'm on to something here...I am willing to bet (if your mutual friend is a woman) that she likes you. Boom, case closed! 1
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