BelleBeauty Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 (edited) I've been texting this guy I've met on Facebook for about 2 weeks. I never verbally talked to him, but I'm really interested in him. The last time we texted he said ''how are you'', I replied ''good, and you?'', I never heard from him again after that. Now 2 1/2 months have gone by, as juvenile as it sounds I keep thinking about him, should I send him a text or should leave it alone since he never responded. Would it be strange to text him out of the blue after 2 1/2 months? Edited September 9, 2014 by BelleBeauty
Assasda Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Hahaha this whole ordeal sounds juvenile. Anyway, send him the txt. You should set up a time to see each other, because texting buddies gets old and one of you will lose interest soon 1
mightycpa Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 I've been texting this guy I've met on Facebook for about 2 weeks. I never verbally talked to him, but I'm really interested in him. The last time we texted he said ''how are you'', I replied ''good, and you?'', I never heard from him again after that. Now 2 1/2 months have gone by, as juvenile as it sounds I keep thinking about him, should I send him a text or should leave it alone since he never responded. Would it be strange to text him out of the blue after 2 1/2 months? Pursuing is how you find out if they like you or not.
clia Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 I've been texting this guy I've met on Facebook for about 2 weeks. I never verbally talked to him, but I'm really interested in him. The last time we texted he said ''how are you'', I replied ''good, and you?'', I never heard from him again after that. Now 2 1/2 months have gone by, as juvenile as it sounds I keep thinking about him, should I send him a text or should leave it alone since he never responded. Would it be strange to text him out of the blue after 2 1/2 months? Yes, it would be strange. This was a guy you texted with for two weeks who never bothered to respond to your last text. In my opinion, if you haven't heard from him in 2 1/2 months, and he never even tried to meet you in person or speak to you on the phone, he is not interested and it would be a waste of time for you to pursue him. Why didn't you reach out sooner? 3
truth_seeker Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 This is a toss up. It is strange to text someone you really don't know after 2.5 months of not speaking to them... but the way things are today, it's become the norm to behave this way.
HappyLove Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Stop putting too much thought into it and text him already. I promise you the world will go on. He had enough interest to text you for two weeks. Just send a text asking how he's doing and this time move things along to a meetup. It's not like you were dating this guy and he ignored you all of a sudden. Reach out and report back! Good luck!
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 gosh, maybe things are not connecting as you think they are. he should have seen a door open for further communication. pushing further may help, but i think he may have other things in mind. allow communication, but i really don't think you both know each other well enough yet to think about getting involved. unless you want a FWB relationship.
preraph Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 By being the aggressor here and continuing to text him after he had nothing much to say to you, you set yourself up to look like someone he might be able to "just hookup" with. So even if he goes for it, it's probably just a hookup.
d0nnivain Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 If you know him in real life, talk to him next time you see him. If you don't know him, I think it's pretty hopeless. My only suggestion, besides forget him, is perhaps post an actual comment to one of his posts & gauge his reaction before texting him via messenger again.
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