Haven't Gone on a Date for a Year

[disneygogetter]

Last date I went on was last summer this year I was suppose to have a few but got stood up so I don't count them. So what should I do? How can I make a good first impression, what to wear, what to say etc.

 

We're going to meet at the mall and probably grab a coffee or something else along those lines.

[Wisecrack]

Guy or girl? Regardless,be confident, keep things light, smile, joke, have fun and be playful. Don't talk about yourself too much and flirt.

 

And a big thing for the guy is if the situation presents, ALWAYS go for the kiss.

[Assasda]

Wear something that youre comfortable in.

Also wear something that when she see's you, she'll think. He looks nice.

 

Ask her questions, and let her do all the talking.

The more she talks the better.

In fact the more she talks, the more comfortable she is becoming, so you want to foster that.

 

If the convo comes to a lull go back to something she said when she was talking and ask her about that.

 

I wouldnt say go for a kiss, you might not like her enough to go for a kiss

[disneygogetter]

I'm a girl and this is a guy. I thought it wasn't a good idea to kiss on the first date? And isn't it more proper to allow the guy to make all of the moves? Why should I be the only one to make the moves?

[Assasda]

I'm a girl and this is a guy. I thought it wasn't a good idea to kiss on the first date? And isn't it more proper to allow the guy to make all of the moves? Why should I be the only one to make the moves?

 

lol didnt know you were a girl

I think its ok for girls to ask for kisses,k if you want.

Just see what he's about, feel him out

[disneygogetter]

Haha yeah but this is going to be a bit weird I'm short compared to him I'm 4'11 and he's 6'4-6'5 haha. So a first kiss may be awkward maybe I just don't want to seem desperate ya know?

[mightycpa]

How old are you, disneygogetter girl?

[disneygogetter]

I am 27 years old and this guy is 23.

[mightycpa]

27. What to wear? What to say? When to kiss? You DO KNOW that girls reach perfection at 27, right? They've outgrown all the drama bull****, and are real people.

 

Ok, here you go, meeting for coffee and/or popcorn.

 

Don't eat popcorn.

 

Dress nice, whatever that means where you live. Smell good. Ask questions about him, get him talking. Say a couple of related things about yourself, then ask another question about him. The conversation will go better that way. He'll think you're interesting, and that the meeting is going well. Measure your response to him as you go along. You like him, you don't, he's ok, whatever.

 

Cut it off if you're not feeling it, unless you want a date just for the practice. He's 23 so you might have to push things along, if this forum is any guide, he will be timid, especially because of the small age difference. You might say "I wasn't sure before I got here, but I really enjoyed meeting you. Give me a call if you want to do something THIS FRIDAY." You'll probably need to put in some leading hints like that to get it moving along. If he's that tall, you're going to have to wait until he kisses you. I'd let it go for that first meeting.

 

Otherwise, he'll be posting on here 30 minutes later - "should I ask her out? I haven't gone out with a girl in a year..." you know, stuff like that.

 

Have fun, and good luck!