Croissant Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 hi I've asked some friends about this problem I've been having with my boyfriend lately and thought I'd come here and ask you guys too We've been together for about 8 months now and have had a great relationship until the past couple of months. He's had to travel to a nearby town for one to a few nights every so often for work. He keeps in contact with text messages from time to time and I don't bug him much since I know he's busy. Every time he comes back from his trips he seems a bit more distant. Worse yet is he's rarely in the mood for sex and when we do get going he gets soft. I know he's on medications that bring down his sex drive but it's never been this bad. I think maybe he's less attracted to me than when we first started. He's got no history of cheating as far as I can tell but he once told me that he longest relationship he's ever been in was the one we're in right now!! He's already in his early 30s. Should I be worried???
me85 Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 I'll tell you this, most guys who have cheated in the past will almost certainly cheat again in the future. Since we don't know what's going on in your boyfriend's mind we can't help you there. Have you talked to him? You really just have to decide whether or not you're overall happy in your RS with your boyfriend or not. What does your gut tell you??
MidwestUSA Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Is he on medication for depression by chance? Could it be depression coming thru despite the med? Does he dislike the traveling?
Author Croissant Posted September 8, 2014 Author Posted September 8, 2014 The drugs are for depression. He hasn't shown any signs of being depressed except for a few times when he became really withdrawn and wouldn't speak much. He's usually really lively and playful. My previous boyfriend got depressed and it really hurt our relationship. I don't want to see this one go downhill because of that as well The last time I talked to him was when we went on a walk together. He was really quiet and not himself. When I asked him how he felt about our future and our relationship he said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. That scared me. I'm not ready for that I don't know what my gut is telling me. This is really confusing. He's not a big fan of traveling for work. Work has been getting him pretty stressed lately.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 its all work related... had a bout with a job that required more than i wanted of me, plus it was a toxic invironment with a femaie boss. I quit and found another job. for th most part it affected my mate at the time, so it drained me more than being single.
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