fred123 Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 how do you get a women to see you as a sexual being rather than a friend or a lamp? do they talk to you differently when they see you differently?
ja123 Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Women who are interested will flirt back and reciprocate your advances. @ Boston Nothing is impossible. You just need to be comfortable and confident in yourself while not really caring if she wants to have sex with you or not. Don't pressure yourself or hinge your self-esteem on the outcome. That's easier said than done, sometimes. Also, you need to get out and meet a lot of women (even as friends to do activities), so you can get lots of practice and not care so much about one particular girl, at the beginning. Remember, you have options. You could try activities such as co-ed intramural sports, volunteering, meetup dot com, etc.
Wisecrack Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 I find it's in the first impression. When you meet them first off you're making it known how you are i.e. don't be afraid to be physical - hugs, a hand on the shoulder here. Be someone who's not afraid to tease her and have a clash of views. Most of all if you want to date her, make it known as early on by asking her out. Even if she turns you down now, you let her known where you want to stand as opposed to her only seeing you as a friend as you try to build a relationship via text.
Author fred123 Posted September 8, 2014 Author Posted September 8, 2014 I find it's in the first impression. When you meet them first off you're making it known how you are i.e. don't be afraid to be physical - hugs, a hand on the shoulder here. Be someone who's not afraid to tease her and have a clash of views. Most of all if you want to date her, make it known as early on by asking her out. Even if she turns you down now, you let her known where you want to stand as opposed to her only seeing you as a friend as you try to build a relationship via text. once u let a girl known you want to be more than friends its upto her to deal with the situation. also do you have to be specific and say i like you more than friends. and do you have to say the question as well "do you like me more than friends?"
slizl Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Confidence and physical contact. Not pervy physical contact, but a touch on the shoulder if standing or on the leg if sitting when you joke around with her. Congratulations my friend, you are out of the friendzone now
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