Ashley S Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Hey everyone, I know another question, sorry, but this has been bothering me. My friend Adam is a cool guy, but he's questionable. I genuinely care for him. He's a disturbed person, cause he has Bi-polar and Depression. So I worry about him a lot. Well, I have this love hate relationship with him, I get pissed off about the fact that he uses women, but then I love him cause he's very disturbed and will show some of that good side he has. It's a confusing friendship we have for sure. Well I haven't spoke to him cause of my busy schedule, so he's working overnight by himself painting in an abandoned house and he calls me to ask if I would come and keep him company and I was kinda rude with him by saying "no" and saying "What am I suppose to do? This has disaster written all over it" So I felt bad and called him back an hour later and said "Are you ok? I'm sorry, if I was rude to you!" He seemed disgusted but he said "No you weren't rude" He was getting kinda testy with me though, and then he said "Did you call about something else?" I said "No, I am just concerned for you, I act like a mother haha, you are working in an abandoned house by yourself, just checking up on you!" He said "You're not my mother" But then later on in the phone convo he said "You must be high, you're probably really high" I said "NO! I can't even tell you the last time I smoked weed, I am just checking up on you buddy!" Does he think I am toying with him? Like I only call him or text him when I am stoned or drunk? I did do that in that past, but I don't smoke weed anymore; however, I did recently called him up drunk, so what do you get from all of this? And do you think he thinks I toy with his emotions or something? It bothers me that he thought I was high and that is why I was calling him up to check on him.
Themanwithaplan Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Hey everyone, I know another question, sorry, but this has been bothering me. My friend Adam is a cool guy, but he's questionable. I genuinely care for him. He's a disturbed person, cause he has Bi-polar and Depression. So I worry about him a lot. Well, I have this love hate relationship with him, I get pissed off about the fact that he uses women, but then I love him cause he's very disturbed and will show some of that good side he has. Does he think I am toying with him? Like I only call him or text him when I am stoned or drunk? I did do that in that past, but I don't smoke weed anymore; however, I did recently called him up drunk, so what do you get from all of this? And do you think he thinks I toy with his emotions or something? It bothers me that he thought I was high and that is why I was calling him up to check on him. Confusing? That's an understatement. You seem pretty indifferent about the whole thing... Maybe he thinks its weird that you treat him like he's your child.
Supernatural Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 What does this have to do with dating? It sounds like you two have a really weird 'friendship'. Seems dependent in some way. What do you want from him? 1
Author Ashley S Posted September 8, 2014 Author Posted September 8, 2014 Confusing? That's an understatement. You seem pretty indifferent about the whole thing... Maybe he thinks its weird that you treat him like he's your child. I am like with everyone! It was more a joke when I said "I act like i'm your mother" Cause I am always worried and checking up on my friends when they are in bad situations or dangerous situations. I do speak to him more when I am drunk and in the past when I was getting stoned a lot. But everyone knows I am a worrier and I worry about my friends a lot.
Author Ashley S Posted September 8, 2014 Author Posted September 8, 2014 What does this have to do with dating? It sounds like you two have a really weird 'friendship'. Seems dependent in some way. What do you want from him? Oh sorry, I am not on this site that much...I didn't look at the other categories, you're right it has nothing to do with dating. I am just bothered that he thinks I don't care for him and that I only care or speak to him when I am intoxicated, and it does seem that way cause I will mostly talk to him when I am intoxicated but even though it seems that way it's definitely not that way cause I care about him regardless, and I worry about him a lot too. I just wanted to see what other people thought, and if people thought that I am toying with him or something?
Adele0908 Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 I think you should take some time and just breathe before you talk to him again.
Assasda Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 I think OP wants a romantic relationship with this guy. This guy wont take her bullcrap, and it drives her wild. OP is actually attracted to this. OP just doesnt want to be one of the women that he "uses", but she would like to be one of his women. Easy
Author Ashley S Posted September 8, 2014 Author Posted September 8, 2014 I just want to know if the reason why he gets disgusted with me is cause he thinks I toy with emotions and I give off the wrong signals.
Thruster Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 If any man could figure out the girls signals we would write a book (BEST SELLER) WE have no clue -- and just like the attention is all If he does not want to have you call - he will let you know
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