secondchances Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 To be clear, that someone else is the lady I'm currently dating though I wouldn't call it a relationship just yet (Been seeing each other for one month though we both seem to be into each other). The reason for the dilemma is I really wanted to attend the event but didn't want to go alone so I asked my friend about two weeks ago if she wanted to come with me which she sounded pretty excited for. Reason I didn't ask the chick I'm seeing is because she was traveling to visit family but yesterday told me that she's coming back early telling me the typical "really excited to see you early!" and now she'll be in town before the event closes up. Now I did the work of buying the tickets myself and no money has been exchanged yet but I can't help but feel rude to cancel on the friend since we already had an understanding.
rester Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Yes, it would be rude to cancel on your friend. The woman you are dating should understand why you invited your friend if she had planned on being out of town. Solution: take your friend to the event and go out with the woman you are dating another night. 1
Assasda Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Dont cancel on your friend. You already made a commitment. Keep it
Mrin Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Dont cancel on your friend. You already made a commitment. Keep it quoted for truth
preraph Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Put yourself in your friend's place. You wouldn't like it so don't do it to the friend. Keeping your promises and being reliable is a cornerstone of friendship.
WhiskeyJack Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 Go with the friend. Its the mature thing to do.
d0nnivain Posted September 8, 2014 Posted September 8, 2014 You could talk to your friend & ask if the friend would mind if you also asked the lady but you can't dump the friend.
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