45mastores Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 So, my prob is a girl i met about two or a more months ago. When we met we had both just broken up from our previous relationships. I asked her for a date and she agreed but for the whole summer we were both going abroad for holidays in 3 different instances so we were kinda seeing each other in between that. First she left, mid july for few days and as son as the plane landed back, she called to see me (was the first time we met just ourselves, previous times we had other company). Anyway, it ended up the best first date I ever had We were together for 5 hours having an amazing time. Then it was my turn when i left for 2 week vacation, i had her in my mind tried to talk a bit with her so she would cool down for me and she seemed to enjoy my texts and laughing on what i was saying. When i came back we arrange to see each other, and we made out and she was reaaaaly behaving like a wanna be girlfriend talking to me about how she want a new BF and showing care on me etc all the girlfriend stuff. Up to this point all 4 times we saw each other (either alone or not) she was giving me all kinds of indication of interest (touching my hand, playing her hair, suggesting to keep me company while i went out to smoke and much more aaall kinds if ioi) So after she left my place everything changed, she stopped behaving like that and became a little cold on me. I asked if everything was alright and she replied that she doesnt want to be in a relationship but want to keep seeing each other. So we met again and slept together (all happened in a week after i returned from holidays) but she was not behaving like what we agreed she was like my girlfriend in front of my friends. After that she left for holidays and i decided to give her all the space she needed to understand what she wants so i only spoke once with her while on holidays and knew something happened. On my side i had a huge crash, we were having fun together, always nice time never awkwardness in general was a really smooth and we matched in so many things. And we on agreed in that When she returned i didnt contact her for 2 days and she didnt also and then when we spoke she looked like things were not were we left them before she went on holidays. So i kinda lost my patience as that thing was going for 2 months and i told her that i don't like relationships without a purpose and im looking to get some love here else we shouldnt see each other cuz it makes me feel really bad having you but not having you. Then she started talking about her ex , that even though she though she was over him she wasn't and he is still in her life and she doesnt want to stop seeing me but can guarantee that we meet at least few times per week so we ended up stop talking and seeing each other which i frel bad chz we were great company. I find it weird cuz she was really into me, epsecially at the beggining and so was i, we were having great time always together which she admitted as well but instead of falling more and more on me she end up getting her feelings back on her ex somehow (at the very beginning she looked like she was over him) I end up stop eating and sleeping because of that, she was really special had all the potential this relationship to go somewhere and im sure she knows it but she still got feelings for her ex :/ any tips on getting back on the game?
evanescentworld Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 Have nothing to do with her. She is clearly two-timing you because she is also with her ex. You will never be her priority, you will only ever be a second choice, an option. Dump this situation, now, and move on.
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