LordVader Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 Like in bars, I never know how to work sexual stuff into the conversation, since I'm older and have next to no experience with any of this stuff. So how do u guys do it ? I never compliment on boobs/shape/butt/etc
Assasda Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 Dont ever compliment on those ever. Only compliment on things that you are genuinely impressed by. Always. You really shouldnt be aiming to make sex jokes anyway. If just happens. She should be the one saying something. Then you can tease her about it. Ask women questions
aprilisi Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 Yup don't, not of you're looking for a decent woman to date I've had the nameless bar hookup before. Nothing sexual was said, he just treated me decent and asked if I wanted to go back to his hotel room. He was awesome
Jules Dash Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 Don't bring up sexual stuff, especially if you are trying to have sex with her. 2
mightycpa Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 What are you trying to accomplish by doing that?
DazedandConfused8 Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 Like in bars, I never know how to work sexual stuff into the conversation, since I'm older and have next to no experience with any of this stuff. Uh... why would you?
TB Rhine Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 If you're doing things right, the sexual stuff should come up on its own, in accordance with biology.
mightycpa Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Here's my favorite one: ME : Hey Matilda, do you have any Spanish in you? Matilda : No. ME : Would you like some? bada-boom...
MissBee Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Like in bars, I never know how to work sexual stuff into the conversation, since I'm older and have next to no experience with any of this stuff. So how do u guys do it ? I never compliment on boobs/shape/butt/etc Why would you want to do that? That's creepy. I am NEVER flattered by a strange man complimenting me sexually. It makes me feel violated. I would rather him stick to a compliment like "You're beautiful, gorgeous, have a beautiful smile, great teeth, lovely skin, nice hair, great shoes, love your dress, you're very articulate, funny, interesting...." ANY OTHER THING besides "Great rack...your ass is so round and tight...nice legs...I'd love to get in between them some time" or any other thing like that...ewww . Stick to pleasant and gentlemanly compliments and forget the sexual stuff ESPECIALLY since you say you're older. 2
mightycpa Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 How about: ME : I really want to get something straight between you and me. pa-rum-pum-pum-pum
OwMyEyeball Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 If you have to ask "how" then just don't bring it up in the first place 1
mightycpa Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 OK, last one for the night: ME : I'd tell you a true story about my penis, but it's just too long. ok, sorry, one more: ME : See this magic watch? It says that you're not wearing any panties! SHE: Yes I am! ME : Really? Are you positive? Oh, I see the problem. It's running an hour fast. I live 30 minutes away, so I think we have time to get another drink. 1
fred123 Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Why would you want to do that? That's creepy. I am NEVER flattered by a strange man complimenting me sexually. It makes me feel violated. I would rather him stick to a compliment like "You're beautiful, gorgeous, have a beautiful smile, great teeth, lovely skin, nice hair, great shoes, love your dress, you're very articulate, funny, interesting...." ANY OTHER THING besides "Great rack...your ass is so round and tight...nice legs...I'd love to get in between them some time" or any other thing like that...ewww . Stick to pleasant and gentlemanly compliments and forget the sexual stuff ESPECIALLY since you say you're older. women dont like gentleman. gentleman dont get laid. u have to be sexually agressive. women respond to that 1
evanescentworld Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Yes, that's how date-rapes happen, thanks for that pithy set of words of wisdom... 1
Candy_Pants Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 women dont like gentleman. gentleman dont get laid. u have to be sexually agressive. women respond to that Yuck. Don't be this guy. 1
gaius Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 If you're clever enough you can come up with stuff that can be interpreted in more than one way.
longjohn Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 (edited) women dont like gentleman. gentleman dont get laid. u have to be sexually agressive. women respond to that Wrong, women tend to like it when a man is respectful of her and doesn't treat her like a piece of meat. Sex is something that has to happen naturally between two parties, consensually. It can't and shouldn't ever be forced and unless it's consensual no woman that I've ever met wants a man to be "sexually aggressive". What is wrong with your head man? OP don't bring up "sexual stuff" to women, seriously they'll run a f*cking mile from you and I wouldn't blame them. Treat them nicely, as an equal and talk to them. If they like you as you like them maybe, just maybe something might click or happen. Don't be like to fred the arsehole, if he had brains he'd be dangerous. Edited September 9, 2014 by longjohn 2
fred123 Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Wrong, women tend to like it when a man is respectful of her and doesn't treat her like a piece of meat. Sex is something that has to happen naturally between two parties, consensually. It can't and shouldn't ever be forced and unless it's consensual no woman that I've ever met wants a man to be "sexually aggressive". What is wrong with your head man? OP don't bring up "sexual stuff" to women, seriously they'll run a f*cking mile from you and I wouldn't blame them. Treat them nicely, as an equal and talk to them. If they like you as you like them maybe, just maybe something might click or happen. Don't be like to fred the arsehole, if he had brains he'd be dangerous. But this is how you get into the friendzone. you have to be sexual and talk sex no? im confused
longjohn Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 But this is how you get into the friendzone. you have to be sexual and talk sex no? im confused No, you talk to them, observe body language. Women will give off signs if they are interested or not. All you have to do is be nice, respectful and pay attention. If your just after sex women tend to figure that out fast. Being "aggressive" will get you labeled a perv and they will run a mile then tell every woman they meet. All of whom will label you and avoid you and for good reason.
preraph Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Bringing up sexual stuff is a sure way to fail. She already knows all most guys care about is sex. But that's not all she cares about.
MissBee Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 women dont like gentleman. gentleman dont get laid. u have to be sexually agressive. women respond to that Guess I'm a male unicorn then.... And so are all my friends. Please go to a bar and say "I want to eff your brains out" to several women and see how well that sexually aggressive move goes over. Will at least one respond favorably? Perhaps. But chances are MOST of the women would at worst slap you and at best walk the hell away.
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