Supernatural Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 He is right, that movie sucked. Also, I wondering if OP has a village bike kinda rep, because why would he come on so strongly? hahaha, Another thing he did wrong was apologize. You dont apologize for something that you meant to do, in my book Some guys are like that. They just go on really strong and creepy. I wouldn't say she is a town bike based on how she reacted to everything, or else she would have gave him a tugger in the theater.... Foo
BeholdtheMan Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Wow OP you must be hot stuff. BTW, your attempt to seek validation is painfully transparent
Andy_K Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 If she was interested his behavior would have been fine. Right, but only if she reacted positively to each move he made. What makes this guy a creep is that she clearly wasn't interested and yet he STILL escalates, paying no attention to her reactions or feelings. Part of not being a creep is knowing where to draw the line and being able to read basic body language and emotions. He didn't. 2
fred123 Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Right, but only if she reacted positively to each move he made. What makes this guy a creep is that she clearly wasn't interested and yet he STILL escalates, paying no attention to her reactions or feelings. Part of not being a creep is knowing where to draw the line and being able to read basic body language and emotions. He didn't. i think im a creep. im bad at reading women
isisisweeping Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Guy is definitely messed up. That movie was GREAT.
isisisweeping Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Aside from the poor taste, yeah, behavior was messed up. You could have told him you're not interested in continuing the date vs bathroom and dash but with as aggressive as he was right in the theater to that point, I understand you going the safer option. And I don't think it's an interest thing. I saw that movie with a guy I absolutely adore and if he pulled that behavior I would have probably slapped him and been pissed. (And no longer interested) 1
SoleMate Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 I really didn't wanna go but he kept saying its gonna be so innocent..... Two red flags right there. 1) When your instinct says "DON'T GO", listen to it! 2) Claims of "innocence" are obvious overprotestation. 1
Easyguy14 Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Aside from the poor taste, yeah, behavior was messed up. You could have told him you're not interested in continuing the date vs bathroom and dash but with as aggressive as he was right in the theater to that point, I understand you going the safer option. And I don't think it's an interest thing. I saw that movie with a guy I absolutely adore and if he pulled that behavior I would have probably slapped him and been pissed. (And no longer interested) This was what I was trying to point out that when a man starts acting like a creep and or loser suddenly he loses point withs the lady. I cant imagine any women liking this lowlife's behavior. This is why he's dateless.
truth_seeker Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 First of all who ignores Guardians of the galaxy? And second hell yeah stay far away from that creep. If you feel uncomfortable, you have a right to avoid him. Not to long ago I had a similar experience with a guy who I made it clear to that I had a boyfriend yet he still insisted on flirting with me and even asked if "it was bad that he wanted to kiss me." Even if After I said it was a bad idea he still flirted. Some guys don't know boundaries and then get confused when girls break contact with them, which is exactly what you should do. Otherwise they continue to cross the lines you draw. You did the right thing if you felt uncomfortable! I had one girl tell me she had a boyfriend. I stopped flirting with her and focused on other women. She got upset I stopped flirting with her. Ummm... 1
truth_seeker Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Anytime someone is pushy with you, or pressuring you, that should be an automatic red flag / alarm goes off in your head. OP is at fault for caving into this guy. The guy is a predator for his actions and behavior.
isisisweeping Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 Anytime someone is pushy with you, or pressuring you, that should be an automatic red flag / alarm goes off in your head. OP is at fault for caving into this guy. The guy is a predator for his actions and behavior. OP is at fault because the guy is an arse? Huh? Correction, Hopefully OP will more aware of this guy being an ******* in the future because she has seen where this behavior leads. The guy who is an arse is at fault for being the one with inappropriate behavior. A person is not ever at fault for someone else doing bad. People who do bad are at fault for their own dam* bad behavior.
Author KaylaP Posted September 9, 2014 Author Posted September 9, 2014 Aside from the poor taste, yeah, behavior was messed up. You could have told him you're not interested in continuing the date vs bathroom and dash but with as aggressive as he was right in the theater to that point, I understand you going the safer option. And I don't think it's an interest thing. I saw that movie with a guy I absolutely adore and if he pulled that behavior I would have probably slapped him and been pissed. (And no longer interested) LMAO I like what u say but I never SLAPPED a guy before so... He still trying to get at me but I told him to leave me alone & I'm ignoring his ass right now until he GOES AWAY!
truth_seeker Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 OP is at fault because the guy is an arse? Huh? Correction, Hopefully OP will more aware of this guy being an ******* in the future because she has seen where this behavior leads. The guy who is an arse is at fault for being the one with inappropriate behavior. A person is not ever at fault for someone else doing bad. People who do bad are at fault for their own dam* bad behavior. She's at fault for going out with him knowing he was like this.
Easyguy14 Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 She's at fault for going out with him knowing he was like this. I'm curious to know what evidence you have to support this ridiculous idea that your holding against her that she caused this to happen?
Supernatural Posted September 9, 2014 Posted September 9, 2014 She's at fault for going out with him knowing he was like this. No. The OP is not at fault for anything! If anything, he seemed okay before the "date" and she gave it a shot. She stayed open to the experience and individual, then gave it a go. She seems like a cool chick. The guy fvvked everything up. Broke her trust. And it's guys like this that ruin it for great guys. This is why most women assume men suck, and or, will be creepy and aggressive. That Douche. 1
truth_seeker Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 I'm curious to know what evidence you have to support this ridiculous idea that your holding against her that she caused this to happen? All I'm saying is that she's at fault for giving a scumbag a chance.
Supernatural Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 All I'm saying is that she's at fault for giving a scumbag a chance. And I'm at fault for leaving my house today at 7am when I got hit by a taxi at 3pm and broke my leg. I mean, I left my house, so I gave someone the chance to run me over.
Easyguy14 Posted September 10, 2014 Posted September 10, 2014 All I'm saying is that she's at fault for giving a scumbag a chance. There's nothing in the girl's post showing that she knew he was going to act the way he did at the movies. Said guy actually pretended to be okay. Why are you saying things to stir up stuff knowing its not true?
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