Toodaloo Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 I think you answered your own question when you said you are more reserved. If you dont speak up people women and men will naturally speak to the one who is engaging with them more. As for the whole gym rat thing. I saw a good looking guy last night but wrinkled my nose as his thighs were so over muscled he wasnt walking properly and his arms so over muscled that he couldnt put them down by his sides... shame. It was as though he had deformed himself. Why would a person do that? Similar to people who go OTT on peircings and tatoos... personally I hate both. If I am kissing a man I want to kiss them not get a lump of metal in my mouth when I venture further than the lips... If I am looking at a persons body I want to see them not feel like I am standing in the local art gallery. Rant over... speak up and smile are your answers.
ascendotum Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 Heh, you know what's funny....the tons of threads here suggesting, "hit the gym, work out, build some muscle, etc, then you'll attract women" Ironic. lol. yeah it is. Muscular physique will rock for majority of women imo. I've observed with women though that the pretty faced slim build 'he's cute' guy will do better with women in their teens to mid 20s, then mid/late 20s on the beefy build less classic handsome but more rugged macho guys start to become more popular with women. Some lucky guys ride the wave all the way through from 16 - 46 as women's type. You can't go wrong with building a solid muscular build though, unless you also develop an over inflated ego, but still that = confidence for lots of women. I think Jules + OME probably touched on the reasons, but its really hard for people to 2nd guess. I'm sure if we observed them both for a bit in a club/bar many would be able to account for it. I certainly wouldn't call Ryan Gosling just a thin pretty boy. He's got a good athletic build.
iiiii Posted September 7, 2014 Posted September 7, 2014 What I don't get is, is that women will approach him but not me. Even if a woman looks at me with interest, they will rarely, mostly never approach me but my friend frequently gets approached. So woman are looking at you with interest, but they don't take it any further? Clearly your buddy is doing something different to encourage them to approach - more subtle flirting (eye contact) perhaps, or more approachable body language? Your other option, of course, is to approach them when they're looking at you with interest. From most women, looking at a man with interest is pretty much a green light for flirting.
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