I am dating a girl with ocd and a eating disorder i need .

[robbysurfs]

(ADVICE)I started dating this girl she is really great and I care about her a lot. We both got hot and heavy very quickly and things progressed very fast. Over the summer we spent a lot of time together. We both live close to each other she is in school and so am I. We are both adults in our 30's and have seemingly normal lives. It basiically started one day she seemed very distant and cold and not to pleasant to be around. That progressed for a few days and we had not had sex and the level of intimacy dropped. I confronted her about it she got very upset. It turned into a mini fight through txt. lately we have been communicating thro txt and basically yesterday she told me her ocd is kicking up again and her compulsions and obsessions are bothering her. I said I am sorry to hear this and I am there for you in what ever capacity you need. I am just confused and dont know where I stand. I am supposed to see her sunday maybe she says. I dont know what to do at this point I am lost and kinda hurt about it all and I dont know if its repairable or should I just bow out and move one.

[d0nnivain]

Stop texting. Never have an emotional conversation though text. Save that for short pithy messages not feelings.

 

Send her some flowers & call her up & take her on an actual date. Help calm her fears by being there not saying or doing anything related to the OCD because you aren't her therapist. Romance her. If it is appropriate make love because the chemical release will actually be very helpful