Author ozziegal8 Posted May 10, 2015 Author Posted May 10, 2015 WS = Wandering spouse BS = Betrayed spouse There is something wrong with looking for commitment from a partner who was in no position to give commitment. He had unfinished business, unresolved issues and ongoing family problems. He was not thinking straight and you suffered. I guess he is a man that needs someone in his life, hence the quick replacement. There is nothing fundamentally wrong with you, this was a mess, just be glad you are now out of it completely yes, i had another counselling session on saturday went well. so you are saying he couldnt really have a proper committed relationship with anyone? 1
Author ozziegal8 Posted May 11, 2015 Author Posted May 11, 2015 i am not sure when he knows what a mess his situation is, he just jumps straight in to another relationship when the same thing could happen as his wife was so against him being with anyone including his kids.
beach Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Consider yourself lucky to be rid of him and his drama. The guy is no good.
dreamingoftigers Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Ozziegal. Only date SINGLE guys for starters. Stop with the married guys or separated guys etc. They are really only going to damage you. Ozziegal, you've been on here for a long time. Every guy that you've dated has been utterly, utterly an abusive trainwreck. And you seem to keep picking them. And then holding tightly to them. What is up with that? What is your criteria for dating?
Author ozziegal8 Posted May 12, 2015 Author Posted May 12, 2015 as soon as i knew he was a betrayed spouse? yeah funny he told me she cheated twice in their marriage and left 3 times, why did he even take her back after the first time. then he let her move in downstairs whilst she was off sleeping around and he found out and lost it, why would he even care if its over? i asked him this question and he said cos she was living under my roof? hmmmm once i found a professional portrait facing the wall in his bedroom of those two together when they were young her with no top on hugging him, her crap was still in the bathroom even tampons in the drawer, when i asked after 6 months for him to get rid of it he thought i was attacking him.
Author ozziegal8 Posted May 12, 2015 Author Posted May 12, 2015 if he has unfinished business why jump straight into another mess?
writergal Posted May 13, 2015 Posted May 13, 2015 A separated man is still married so he's off limits no matter what he says.
Author ozziegal8 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 i have beach don't worry, no contact for 8 months. i just have the sense of rejection, he told me it was over cos of all his stress with family and our fighting but then jumps into another relationship straight away. when i asked him to get a divorce he said he hadn't even thought about it, hmmm
Author ozziegal8 Posted May 13, 2015 Author Posted May 13, 2015 bailed when i found out he was a betrayed spouse?
Author ozziegal8 Posted May 20, 2015 Author Posted May 20, 2015 The title of this thread, "Dating a seperated man with baggage" should be changed to "Dating a man with baggage and an extra carry-on" am i the extra carry-on?
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