Mtniir Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 My ex and I met through mutual friends. I had been dating my ex for about month an a half. Things were going great. There was an instant attraction, comfort, and connection. The relationship moved fast and was pretty intense. We had spent a couple full weekends together and saw each other a bunch of times outside of that. We were constantly talking and texting through the day. I would say she did most of the texting during the day though. My work got really crazy and I honestly became a bit needy because of stress. My diet also went to **** as I am a comfort eater. Our last weekend together we went away for the weekend on my birthday and I felt like a different person and was really moody, quiet, and depressed because of work. Pretty much sounded like a wuss for a few days. The next time we hung out was dinner with some of her friends and it went ok. Long story short I had been really distracted with work and was having trouble giving her the attention I think she was looking for when we were in person ( i was distracted). She was also stressed at work and could of used some attention. That translated to me not really listening to her as well as delayed responses to texts and phone calls. She then suddenly ended things over text while I was out of town visiting friends. Her main point was that she had an uneasy feeling about things. I sent a short text back saying how I was blind sided that she felt that way and that I was not thrilled she did it over text. She did not respond. I followed up with her two days later and we agreed to speak on the phone. The phone call was cold and she really did not say much other than we have a lot of the same interests and also don't share a lot of the same interest. I could not really get anything out of her so rather than keep prying I told her I understood and wished her the best of luck in the future. A couple days after that I sent a text explaining that I really enjoyed our time together, acknowledged our work distractions, told her she made me feel something I have not felt in some time, and wished her the best of luck. I also mentioned that I was hopeful for a friendship in the future. She sent a text back saying thanking me for the note and that it was beautifully written. She also agreed to friendship in the future. I wanted to get your perspective on the above. Thanks for your POV in advance.
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