sportygirl89 Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 My ex told me that he was happy with me but happier with his new girlfriend.
preraph Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Yes, well, that will only last for the first little bit before he is ready to seek new variety and ego validation from yet another "new" girlfriend. Goodbye to immature rubbish. 5
acrosstheuniverse Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 He can't be that happy with his new gf if he has the time and energy and desire to get in touch with his ex girlfriend to tell her. If a guy told me this I would wonder what he had to prove and why he still cared. I'm happier in my current relationship than in either of the previous relationships that ended really badly with the guy breaking my heart. Never in a trillion years would I text those guys just to let them know my new boyfriend treats me better and is more amazing than either of them put together. Because ya know, I'm kinda busy being really happy with him now. 7
me85 Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Great for him!!!! I'm sure my ex is happier with his new GF of 9 months too. Oh but official bf/gf for 4 months, excuse me. But has been in contact with me the entire time. LOL I mean, obviously he is happier because he chose her over me but I could really care less anymore. I'm smart, I'm pretty, I'm funny, I'm fun to be around...I really don't think I'll have a problem getting into another RS when I want to. 2
Mrin Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Nice backhanded compliment. Consider yourself lucky to be done with him. The worst sort of these stories I've heard was from a friend of mine. She's mid 40's. She was having lunch with her ex with whom she's friends. He was talking about his new girlfriend (early 30's) and said, get this, "I think I am just better suited for younger women. Older women just seem... I know don't know... all used up". Pretty sure she keyed his car on the way out of the restaurant. What an epic douche. 4
Author sportygirl89 Posted September 6, 2014 Author Posted September 6, 2014 Finally blocked the guys email due to chrom gmail block sender app. Woo no more immaturity. I told him to go **** off. He cares more about his current gf when he referred to his ex wife as a wife while we were dating. If only she knew. He will get his karma. Not my issue anymore. 2
DazedandConfused8 Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 My ex told me that he was happy with me but happier with his new girlfriend. Have you bothered to discuss or ask why he was happier?
Missy0724 Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 I don't mean to laugh - but I love this site! Got a good laugh right now. From the language. Douchebag. Love love love that word! haha. Selfish prick. Love the word prick, too. I just cut my ex prick douchebag out of my life, too. It's called immaturity, trying to get others approval, because they can't do that for themselves. Insecure, needy, little boys. Mine called me three weeks after he broke up with me bragging about all the fun he having, so busy, went out dancing (when with me he told me he didn't dance), golfing with his dad (day after I told him my dad had cancer and was very sick, prob dying) and best of all - HE HAD A DATE. His voice all happy and excited... Who the F does that? Says that to someone they know, they just broke their heart 3 weeks earlier??? Yup, selfish douchebag insensitive, prick, little boy. Oh and probably a narcissist as well. Oh he was a bucket of fun... SEE YA. Hope your next victim has fun with you. And dealing with your drama, fact that you still in love with your ex wife, and you STILL seeking her approval. LOSER. Good riddance. God, love is blind. Or maybe let's say, Lust is blind. 1
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 My ex told me that he was happy with me but happier with his new girlfriend. I wonder if new GF douches before a date.
Dork Vader Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 Have you bothered to discuss or ask why he was happier? I hope you are joking. What could she possibly gain from his perspective? The guy is clearly selfish. If he was unhappy he should have said I'm not happy and I want to date. But nooo he wanted her all to himself while he explored his options. His opinion is meaningless and self centered. Unless she treated him like crap. But even still when a woman treats me like crap and I want to date I tell them.. I don't just do it. 1
xxJuliexx Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 He's a insecure loser to be telling you or contacting you that he has a new girlfriend, it's like "uh thanks! You just proved to me that I am still important in your life, and that you are a immature, insecure douchebag" Hahaha, wow!! He sucks but you're awesome, so keep up with your awesomeness girl
guest569 Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 Sometimes hindsight is the only indication to us they are douchebags!! 2
Tayken Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 The grass is always greener...hence the reason why the divorce rate is at what it is these days. Pointing fingers at one gender is just plain silly, all the tools available today, make it easier to move onto something else quickly i.e. facebook, twitter, tinder, cellphones, bad friends, rose tinted glasses OP...I am sure if a new Mr Wonderful comes along, you will be saying the same about your ex 1
guest569 Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 But would she go out of her way to contact her ex and tell him that? It's just plain rude and i think shows that he is not truly happy.
elseaacych Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 My ex told me that he was happy with me but happier with his new girlfriend. To your ex. Uhhhh.... okay. Bye.
NC-Thomas Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 The best revenge is just to overflow your ex with love. He's trying to get to you, but it will failif you just go NC or say: "Im happy for you, I wish you the very best in life! :)" 1
Author sportygirl89 Posted April 20, 2015 Author Posted April 20, 2015 He has actually been through 3 girlfriends well on his third now. I get an amusement out of it. This is what friends tell me. So I take it is the he's not to happy part. But there's a special place in hell for guys like him. I treated him like a king BTW, he'd always be the one to want to spend time with his guy friends and blow me off.
Auspecial Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Nice backhanded compliment. Consider yourself lucky to be done with him. The worst sort of these stories I've heard was from a friend of mine. She's mid 40's. She was having lunch with her ex with whom she's friends. He was talking about his new girlfriend (early 30's) and said, get this, "I think I am just better suited for younger women. Older women just seem... I know don't know... all used up". Pretty sure she keyed his car on the way out of the restaurant. What an epic douche. THAT is truly disgusting! Not just the sentiment but that he would be that cruel and/or dumba@@ toward his "friend," which is pitiful that he thinks its okay to say things like this. Where is the humanity???
mightycpa Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Don't date douches... I guess that's pretty sound advice. How do you figure that out up front?
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