Haydn Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 But i love Desert Island Discs. The responses on this thread are garbage. Completely. A blowjob and and a steak? What the hell... or Take me out, wearing a low-cut top, then wear lingerie at home? What a joke. The second one is more about you than me. It sounds like a beer commercial came up with these ideas. Ya. I'm hating. If a blowjob and steak are a once a year occasion...This relationship sucks, really bad. If your idea of a fun birthday night for me, is YOU wearing something sexy, being ogled by other men, then wearing lingerie for sex - which does nothing for me - This relationship is shallow and pathetic, and sucks. In my mind... Why are you not being sexy all the time? Why do you only care about me one day out of a year to make me steak and suck me off? This is a stupid valentines day type relationship. Show you care once a year. Like just about every relationship out there. So far the biggest contribution of a woman here for a fun birthday, is sex and steak. If someone can only show me they love me through sex... That's just sad. Don't get me wrong, the average meat head would be thrilled... Would you want a guy to cook you some veggies bring you some chocolate, and go down on you for your birthday? And that be all...? Ya.. looks like he deeply cares about you and you're not generic..... ----------------------- But for men with brains in their head - between their shoulders - something from your heart is always good. Going back to the first place you kissed and playing the same song that was playing. Re-living an amazing date we once had.. Something deeper than a blowjob and steak. Something special and original that only you and him shared. Something that makes your hearts grow, re-lights your passion. Sex is a side effect. A very small piece. Keep the main thing about passion and growing together. Keep it deeper. Sex will be had if your body and mind are totally present. It's inevitable. If a persons main weapon is sex or that's all they have to offer... Hahahahahah.... GTFO. You will be divorced or broken up and empty in a couple years. The difference here is... Buying someone a hallmark card with a stupid picture on it, and signing your name. ..And... Writing them a homemade card telling them how much they have effected your life and how much you care about them. Which would you prefer?
dj572 Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 I can't speak for every man but as far as I am concerned I just want to be left alone to do what I want to do. I turned 40 this year and everybody wanted to make a big deal about it. I had plans and I made it clear I wanted to be left alone. I don't like being the center of attention I think it is childish but I am not "normal".:-)
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