LoveMyFirefighter Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 My boyfriends Bday is coming up and I wanna do something special.. Anybody got any idea's of what a man's idea of a perfect bday consists of?
d0nnivain Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Good food & sex. If you can work in his buddies, he'll be thrilled. The best received gifts I ever gave guys were things I'd never want to get: hunting supplies; an A frame ladder; car parts etc. 3
Author LoveMyFirefighter Posted September 5, 2014 Author Posted September 5, 2014 Haha.. food n sex is EXACTLY what I was thinking.. any suggestions on what to cook?
carhill Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Birthdays were, generally, never a memorable experience but I do recall one where my exW told me to knock off early that day and she'd be home early and that we were 'going out' and I needed to 'dress up'. She had made reservations at a quite intimate restaurant where one has the table for the evening and service was very personalized and the meal was in courses, each accompanied by a wine selected by the sommelier. She brought her own bottle of real champagne. She drove, dinner was on her and we had a wonderfully relaxing evening, which was a real treat during those very stressful years of caregiving I was going through. What I experienced was, though somewhat rare, her thinking of me and going the extra mile to make my birthday special. That's a good memory. Each man will be different in his desires and/or words/actions he appreciates. You know your BF best. 1
d0nnivain Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Cook whatever his favorite meal is. Assuming he's not a vegetarian a great steak is a always a crowd pleaser. 1
longjohn Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Beer, Burgers and Boobs never fail to surprise 1
PegNosePete Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 I was going to respond that each man is different. What he likes will vary depending on his personality, interests, your relationship, mood, etc. But yes you can't go wrong with beer, steak and sex. 1
Author LoveMyFirefighter Posted September 5, 2014 Author Posted September 5, 2014 I want to try something a lil different tho cuz he always gets food and sex.. lol.. perhaps I'll try cooking something new and maybe wear some lingerie:confused: 1
Potz4prez Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 A blowjob, cake and a relaxing/fun trip or event. 1
Jules Dash Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Great food and enthusiastic BJ is essential for a perfect bday.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 I am a man that is passionate. so, my idea of a b'day that is fun and something you cant do on a regular basis. an indy car lap around, defencive driving coarse, a private plane trip for picknick, they usually drop you off and come back at a later time. of coarse it is limited to your local. Being in UK there is lots more activities that are exciting getaways that both men and women enjoy, so telling your mate we're going to France is a bit different and mind blowing for some.
rocketman122 Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 every man is different and age will affect what he likes. I personally dont like celebrating my birthday. its also sept 11 so I try to celebrate it on the 12th. but as a 42yo, I enjoy spending time with my most important people. and thats my lady Tsipi. ohev otach. for me though, a nice meal (restaurant), nice conversation, and lovemaking is simple and perfect.
preraph Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Well, if he's used to the food and sex, you need to take him out. Dress like a ho, showing a lot of cleavage (but classy not trashy) and wear some sexy heels and take him to a steak restaurant or lobster or whatever his special food is all dressed up. You should also check for special events in town like a car show, whatever, that might be of special interest for him just in case there's a happy coincidence.
MissBee Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 I think you should cater his birthday to things he likes and not just things other men say they like. Different men like different things, so my rule in giving people gifts is basing it on their personality and things they would like. It feels a lot more personal when you can do that, especially if it's for a boyfriend, versus a generic "man gift." What does he like or ever mentioned he'd want whether it's an activity etc? My bf loves planes, helicopters, flying. So I got him 3 helicopter flying lessons for his birthday and we also did dinner at a place that is famous for their chicken, because he likes chicken and the circus because he'd mentioned he wanted to go. Everything was something I knew he would like specifically, for another guy it might be something else entirely.
rocketman122 Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Well, if he's used to the food and sex, you need to take him out. Dress like a ho, showing a lot of cleavage (but classy not trashy) and wear some sexy heels and take him to a steak restaurant or lobster or whatever his special food is all dressed up. You should also check for special events in town like a car show, whatever, that might be of special interest for him just in case there's a happy coincidence. yes because a ho is classy fo sho! 1
gaius Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 I like to go somewhere, see something I haven't in a while, maybe catch a baseball game and end the day in a hotel with her in some kind of lingerie ensemble. Doesn't have to be anywhere fancy even. Not that the woman has to pay for any of that but clearing time on her schedule is good.
Haydn Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 A sharpish discussion about `Desert Island discs`, followed by a heated debate on why Kay Burley is somewhat available. Rounded off by tea and toast and an intimate squeeze. Exhale....
Diezel Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 If it's on Sunday and there's a football game, don't talk during the game.
CaliGypsy Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 Surprising him with something he loves to do, but maybe you don't would be fun. I might take my guy to a gun range (or show) or to a football game. Or, I might go skateboarding with him. Those are things that are meaningful to him. And of course there would be red wine and chocolate cake and either steak or seafood. And sex. Let me add that just because it's last, doesn't mean it's less 1
Supernatural Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 The responses on this thread are garbage. Completely. A blowjob and and a steak? What the hell... or Take me out, wearing a low-cut top, then wear lingerie at home? What a joke. The second one is more about you than me. It sounds like a beer commercial came up with these ideas. Ya. I'm hating. If a blowjob and steak are a once a year occasion...This relationship sucks, really bad. If your idea of a fun birthday night for me, is YOU wearing something sexy, being ogled by other men, then wearing lingerie for sex - which does nothing for me - This relationship is shallow and pathetic, and sucks. In my mind... Why are you not being sexy all the time? Why do you only care about me one day out of a year to make me steak and suck me off? This is a stupid valentines day type relationship. Show you care once a year. Like just about every relationship out there. So far the biggest contribution of a woman here for a fun birthday, is sex and steak. If someone can only show me they love me through sex... That's just sad. Don't get me wrong, the average meat head would be thrilled... Would you want a guy to cook you some veggies bring you some chocolate, and go down on you for your birthday? And that be all...? Ya.. looks like he deeply cares about you and you're not generic..... ----------------------- But for men with brains in their head - between their shoulders - something from your heart is always good. Going back to the first place you kissed and playing the same song that was playing. Re-living an amazing date we once had.. Something deeper than a blowjob and steak. Something special and original that only you and him shared. Something that makes your hearts grow, re-lights your passion. Sex is a side effect. A very small piece. Keep the main thing about passion and growing together. Keep it deeper. Sex will be had if your body and mind are totally present. It's inevitable. If a persons main weapon is sex or that's all they have to offer... Hahahahahah.... GTFO. You will be divorced or broken up and empty in a couple years. The difference here is... Buying someone a hallmark card with a stupid picture on it, and signing your name. ..And... Writing them a homemade card telling them how much they have effected your life and how much you care about them. Which would you prefer?
Mrin Posted September 5, 2014 Posted September 5, 2014 So I am going to assume that BJ's and sex are regular staple for your relationship already. I mean, they should be, right? This is what my GF did. She planned the entire day as a surprise. First we checked into a downtown hotel. Then we had lots of great sex. Then we went to an art gallery (I like art) co-op that specializes in providing space to homeless and poor artists. Some really cool stuff there. Then we hit up a cool local bar for beers. Then we toured an urban winery (I like wine). Then we had great sex. Then we went out to dinner (I like good food). Then went to drink with her brother at a high end bar. Then went to an old school video arcade - she killed me at Vs. Pacman but I schooled her at Galaga. Then went to a concert that my buddy was playing. Then went back and had more great sex. Then we slept and had more great sex in the morning. Epic
DazedandConfused8 Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 My boyfriends Bday is coming up and I wanna do something special.. Anybody got any idea's of what a man's idea of a perfect bday consists of? I've almost always had two birthday parties because of the time of year my birthday is, so I'm happy with a "family" party with close family and a "friends" party with the S.O. and (sometimes) friends. Usually the former is a BBQ and cake at home and the latter is dinner and a movie or dinner and drinks.
DazedandConfused8 Posted September 6, 2014 Posted September 6, 2014 So I am going to assume that BJ's and sex are regular staple for your relationship already. I mean, they should be, right? This is what my GF did. She planned the entire day as a surprise. First we checked into a downtown hotel. Then we had lots of great sex. Then we went to an art gallery (I like art) co-op that specializes in providing space to homeless and poor artists. Some really cool stuff there. Then we hit up a cool local bar for beers. Then we toured an urban winery (I like wine). Then we had great sex. Then we went out to dinner (I like good food). Then went to drink with her brother at a high end bar. Then went to an old school video arcade - she killed me at Vs. Pacman but I schooled her at Galaga. Then went to a concert that my buddy was playing. Then went back and had more great sex. Then we slept and had more great sex in the morning. Epic Wife material right there!
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