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There this girls that we text almost daily except on the days I didn't initiate text. She sometimes threatens not to talk to me especially when I teases her or say something negative about her(I was just teasing).

 

Example

Her: You are so weird! (She says this a lot of times)

Me : You are weird too

Her : Ok, I am weird. Don't talk to me then.

 

I often say she reads and doesn't reply. So now she also does the same.

 

Her: *Some texts* (I read and doesn't reply)

Her: Read and no reply.

*An hour later*

Me: How did you know(She wouldn't know unless she stalks in on Whatsapp as the IM we uses currently doesn't show last seen status)

Her : Ok with a bye smiley

 

And when I don't text her she will think I am angry and ask me why didn't I text her. But it's just that on some days I am tired of initiating.

 

I prompted her IRL does she ask that to all her friends and she just say I must text her and doesn't give any reason.

 

What is going on with this girl?

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There this girls that we text almost daily except on the days I didn't initiate text.

 

So you're saying you two only talk when you initiate? Sounds like she's not that into you

 

She sometimes threatens not to talk to me especially when I teases her or say something negative about her(I was just teasing).

 

Example

Her: You are so weird! (She says this a lot of times)

Me : You are weird too

Her : Ok, I am weird. Don't talk to me then.

 

Are you two in sixth grade?

 

Her: *Some texts* (I read and doesn't reply)

Her: Read and no reply.

*An hour later*

Me: How did you know(She wouldn't know unless she stalks in on Whatsapp as the IM we uses currently doesn't show last seen status)

Her : Ok with a bye smiley

 

This be some middle school sh*t right here

 

And when I don't text her she will think I am angry and ask me why didn't I text her. But it's just that on some days I am tired of initiating.

 

I prompted her IRL does she ask that to all her friends and she just say I must text her and doesn't give any reason.

 

What is going on with this girl?

 

I know what's going on in with you. You're putting too much effort into this chick. Find a chick who doesn't operate on the level of a 12 year old.

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So you're saying you two only talk when you initiate? Sounds like she's not that into you

It's like I initiate roughly 90% of the time. She told me it was the guys job to initiate.

 

 

Are you two in sixth grade?

 

This be some middle school sh*t right here

I know all these sounds really immature, but we are in uni.

 

 

 

I know what's going on in with you. You're putting too much effort into this chick. Find a chick who doesn't operate on the level of a 12 year old.

Indeed, I am starting to lose interest and I find her really insecure and unappreciative of my efforts. That is why I ignored her twice, 2 and 3 days respectively hoping that I would forget her. But she came back and yeah I couldn't resist as I still have a little crush on her. We still talk late into the midnight before we sleeps but she is giving out so much "playing hard to get aura" that is turning me off.

 

I would just want to know whether do girls especially I think insecure ones do that just to test guys and whether should I continue on pursuing her.

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